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    I'm in my first ever relationship and I have no idea what to do or how to act. We were friends before we got together and now we are together I don't know how to change.
    I've never had any form of relationship before; no kiss, no sex, nothing. I don't like not knowing things, I am a very stubborn person and I rely at lot on my intelligence however I have no knowledge in this area.

    He has had relationships before and he is not a virgin either so I feel rather strange sometimes, especially when people talk about his sex-life with his ex-girlfriend in school. How do I find this less awkward?
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    I'm in my first ever relationship and I have no idea what to do or how to act. We were friends before we got together and now we are together I don't know how to change.
    I've never had any form of relationship before; no kiss, no sex, nothing. I don't like not knowing things, I am a very stubborn person and I rely at lot on my intelligence however I have no knowledge in this area.

    He has had relationships before and he is not a virgin either so I feel rather strange sometimes, especially when people talk about his sex-life with his ex-girlfriend in school. How do I find this less awkward?
    Have a think about what you want and how you see the relationship going.
    Dont do anything you dont want and dont feel pressurised.
    Take it at your own pace.
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    I agree with the post above.
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    As soon as you start getting physical you will know what to do, it comes naturally. (I was in a similar situation, and it worked like that for me) Good luck
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    my first ever relationship I was the same! I had never kissed a boy or had sex or anything however my boyfriend had had sex with a few girls. I was very anxious but after about 2 months it just happened naturally. Don’t feel pressured into doing anything! When it happens it happens, and from there it’ll only get better!
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    I suggest talking to him about this, just let him know you're a little worried about what to do. If he's good, then he'll support you and eventually you'll let your feelings guide you. Try not to worry.
 
 
 
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