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    Basically, me and my boyfriend have been having sex for months and both of our parents know this. Every time I go to his house his parents are usually out so we have sex, the door is always shut and usually his parents knock before coming in.

    Yesterday I went round, no one was in and things were getting intimate, we weren’t actually doing anything but he had his top off and I was sat on top of him in my underwear, I had my jumper on which is quite baggy and hid my knickers, he was wearing shorts however the covers were pulled up so you couldn’t see he was wearing shorts and you couldn’t see I had my knickers on. His dad unexpectedly walked in and caught us like that...
    he rushed out l. It was very very awkward but we weren’t actually doing anything so we didn’t want to rush out and be like no it wasn’t what it looked like! And stuff incase that looked shady so we just didn’t mention it. I was very very embarrassed and didn’t want to see him for the rest of the day. However I said bye politely as usual and thanked him for having me over .

    Now I just feel awful! I don’t know what to do or say. Has anyone else been in a position like this before? What do I do now?

    He’s 20 and I’m 18 by the way.
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    (Original post by charlotteporter)
    Basically, me and my boyfriend have been having sex for months and both of our parents know this. Every time I go to his house his parents are usually out so we have sex, the door is always shut and usually his parents knock before coming in.

    Yesterday I went round, no one was in and things were getting intimate, we weren’t actually doing anything but he had his top off and I was sat on top of him in my underwear, I had my jumper on which is quite baggy and hid my knickers, he was wearing shorts however the covers were pulled up so you couldn’t see he was wearing shorts and you couldn’t see I had my knickers on. His dad unexpectedly walked in and caught us like that...
    he rushed out l. It was very very awkward but we weren’t actually doing anything so we didn’t want to rush out and be like no it wasn’t what it looked like! And stuff incase that looked shady so we just didn’t mention it. I was very very embarrassed and didn’t want to see him for the rest of the day. However I said bye politely as usual and thanked him for having me over .

    Now I just feel awful! I don’t know what to do or say. Has anyone else been in a position like this before? What do I do now?

    He’s 20 and I’m 18 by the way.
    Maybe ask your boyfriend to bring it up with your dad, and say how you're embarrassed and didn't want him to think anything was happening?
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    Proper mature lot here
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    Just act like it never happened, his dad won't bring it up with either of you (he might tell your boyfriends mum about it) if anything he'll be doing his best to forget it ever happened.
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    Unfortunately it can happen. It's not like his dad suddenly knows you have sex now. Just put it in the past and move on.
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    Yeah, something similar happened to me. Me and my partner were having sex, and I didn't realise how loud I was and then his mum knocked on the door and said why are we making so much noise :'S CRINGE.
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    How would you feel if you did the same thing to your son/daughter?

    Never mention it again and just move on.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yeah, something similar happened to me. Me and my partner were having sex, and I didn't realise how loud I was and then his mum knocked on the door and said why are we making so much noise :'S CRINGE.
    Oh god no what happened after that? Did anyone say anything?
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    Time to start a new life in Argentina
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    (Original post by Looke)
    Time to start a new life in Argentina
    I am seriously considering
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    If he's not said anything about it since then he's probably trying to forget it ever happened, so just sort of let him quietly do that and never mention it again.

    Good news is he'll probably make sure to knock now.
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    (Original post by charlotteporter)
    Basically, me and my boyfriend have been having sex for months and both of our parents know this. Every time I go to his house his parents are usually out so we have sex, the door is always shut and usually his parents knock before coming in.

    Yesterday I went round, no one was in and things were getting intimate, we weren’t actually doing anything but he had his top off and I was sat on top of him in my underwear, I had my jumper on which is quite baggy and hid my knickers, he was wearing shorts however the covers were pulled up so you couldn’t see he was wearing shorts and you couldn’t see I had my knickers on. His dad unexpectedly walked in and caught us like that...
    he rushed out l. It was very very awkward but we weren’t actually doing anything so we didn’t want to rush out and be like no it wasn’t what it looked like! And stuff incase that looked shady so we just didn’t mention it. I was very very embarrassed and didn’t want to see him for the rest of the day. However I said bye politely as usual and thanked him for having me over .

    Now I just feel awful! I don’t know what to do or say. Has anyone else been in a position like this before? What do I do now?

    He’s 20 and I’m 18 by the way.
    Just forget it ever happened - He's perhaps just as embarrassed as both of you are, cringe all round I think. Unless you're suddenly not welcome round their house anymore, then I'd try and forget it ever happened. See if you're still welcome round - If so, you're good.
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    (Original post by charlotteporter)
    Oh god no what happened after that? Did anyone say anything?
    I wanted to die... He just told her we were doing exercise I live with her as well, so it was so AWKWARD
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    (Original post by charlotteporter)
    Basically, me and my boyfriend have been having sex for months and both of our parents know this. Every time I go to his house his parents are usually out so we have sex, the door is always shut and usually his parents knock before coming in.

    Yesterday I went round, no one was in and things were getting intimate, we weren’t actually doing anything but he had his top off and I was sat on top of him in my underwear, I had my jumper on which is quite baggy and hid my knickers, he was wearing shorts however the covers were pulled up so you couldn’t see he was wearing shorts and you couldn’t see I had my knickers on. His dad unexpectedly walked in and caught us like that...
    he rushed out l. It was very very awkward but we weren’t actually doing anything so we didn’t want to rush out and be like no it wasn’t what it looked like! And stuff incase that looked shady so we just didn’t mention it. I was very very embarrassed and didn’t want to see him for the rest of the day. However I said bye politely as usual and thanked him for having me over .

    Now I just feel awful! I don’t know what to do or say. Has anyone else been in a position like this before? What do I do now?



    He’s 20 and I’m 18 by the way.
    One way I like to think about things is: "It's never a big deal unless you make it a big deal." I guess this kind of helps me. And it's probably not a big deal, his dad was probably having sex at that age too. Just tell your dad that you weren't doing anything, and ask if everything is ok. Or tell your boyfriend to talk to him. Best thing to do is forget it ever happened.
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    That's nothing, my mum walked in on my boyfriend and I once, clearly naked but thankfully under covers, and said "one minute love just need the hair dryer" then continued to walk around the bed and said "have fun" as she shut the door behind her. We were 15

    Or the time she came downstairs laughing her head off because she just walked in on my sister and "got a full frontal view of a very compromised position"

    Or the time my friend's boyfriends mum laughed at her before dinner because, earlier that day, she had walked in on my friend giving her son a blowjob and quietly left. Before food, she said "Hungry holly? oh wait sorry I forgot you've already eaten"

    Suck it up and pretend it never happened hahahaha
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I wanted to die... He just told her we were doing exercise I live with her as well, so it was so AWKWARD
    I feel the same!! We made up some sh.t excuse and you just know they know youre lying 😂
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    Should've asked him to join in.
    :lol: lad!
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    I'm dissapointed the dad didn't give the son a high five.


    (Original post by marshalld67)
    That's nothing, my mum walked in on my boyfriend and I once, clearly naked but thankfully under covers, and said "one minute love just need the hair dryer" then continued to walk around the bed and said "have fun" as she shut the door behind her. We were 15

    Or the time she came downstairs laughing her head off because she just walked in on my sister and "got a full frontal view of a very compromised position"

    Or the time my friend's boyfriends mum laughed at her before dinner because, earlier that day, she had walked in on my friend giving her son a blowjob and quietly left. Before food, she said "Hungry holly? oh wait sorry I forgot you've already eaten"

    Suck it up and pretend it never happened hahahaha
    Your mum sounds hilarious
 
 
 
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