I met this guy four weeks ago. We've been on a few dates, drinking coffee and just going for walks. We had lovely conversations, never ran out of topics to talk about. He was also really interested and asked lots of questions.
But things escalated rather quickly. We made out on our second date already. But I felt comfortable with him. He never pressured me into doing anything.
I've been at his place twice and he's been at my place twice so far. However, I only spent one night with him. I stayed the night at his place last weekend. That was also when we had sex. I'm not very experienced, but it was good for me. He seemed to enjoy it too. That's why I'm so confused as to why he hasn't really messaged me since. It was not like he made me leave first thing in the morning, I stayed for breakfast and even much longer. I really thought we had a connection. I like him a lot. It also wasn't like that night was only about sex. We talked a lot, or just cuddled for a few hours, enjoying each others company.
I did message him once, to which he replied that he was quite busy.
What do you think? Is he avoiding me? What reasons could he have for doing so? Do you think that I did something wrong? Do you think I'll hear from him again? Should I message him? (I think I will wait for a few more days and then definitely message him, just to see if he's alright. I care too much about him to just let that go.)
I'd appreciate any advice you might have.
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- Thread Starter
- 13-10-2017 17:33
- 13-10-2017 17:41
it would be probably best if you give him a call. you might pick up something on why he didn't communicate after your date!
sometimes, you might hear the answer in the tone of his voice
- Community Assistant
- 13-10-2017 17:44
Agree with above, if you phone him then he doesn't really have time to think about his answers so you'll know how he truly feels straight away.
- 13-10-2017 17:45
yes. I think you got the idea.
I'm sorry, it may not be what you wanted to hear.
- 13-10-2017 18:10
Buy him a chicken burger meal to ease any issues
- 13-10-2017 18:17
He appears to have gone cold. Best bet is to leave the ball in his court.