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    I have never actually had sex but when I masturbate I tend to finish quite quickly. This might be because I do go fast when I do it but I'm worried that when I actually have sex I will finish quickly and embarrass myself. Does anyone have any advice on how to last longer? Thanks
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    (Original post by michael1010)
    I have never actually had sex but when I masturbate I tend to finish quite quickly. This might be because I do go fast when I do it but I'm worried that when I actually have sex I will finish quickly and embarrass myself. Does anyone have any advice on how to last longer? Thanks
    masturbate first, then have sex shortly after
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    masturbate first, then have sex shortly after
    Does that actually make much of a difference? And do you have any other suggestions? Thank you
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    Try not to worry Michael, it's a common concern and nothing to worry about, endurance is something that comes with time. If you need the confidence boost to go through with it though, there are options out there that can help a bit.

    Masturbating earlier in the day may help (only good if you know it's coming!), failing that you can buy numbing condoms that will make you less sensitive and able to last longer.

    I'd recommend you go natural and just get confidence with time, it's everyone's first time once.
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    You might find it more difficult because it feels a lot different.

    But if you do feel like you're close, what you can do is take your time. Go slow, switch up the positions to give yourself a little bit of time to calm down. You can take some time to pleasure her and ignore yourself for a bit so you'll be able to go for a little bit longer once you get back to it.
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    Just enjoy yourself man and don't worry about it. From what I know and have experienced women don't really care. If they're into you, they just care about being close with you. Also all vaginas different. Some make you *** fast and others don't
 
 
 
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