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    i find it hard to make friends but this year in college - as in this college year (so September) i thought finally i found some friends and we created a discord server and a group chat and we were all every day hanging out at lunch


    Anyways fast forward to yesterday they were planning a weekend activity without me and i asked why (in class as we was allowed to talk about whatever while we work) and today i realized one member blocked me on fb, kicked me out the group chat and blocked me on discord

    I mean they ditched me a few times at break and lunch and even tried to run away from me a few weeks ago at lunch and a member bought doughnuts and didnt give me one but gave everyone else one and there is 4 of us back then - now tho there is more... He gave me the rubbish tho



    It's not fair on me - I have never had one very close friend who i can trust and rely on


    It makes me feel like I am a bad person
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    I can't give much advice, sorry, but do you know why they are doing this? Did you do anything to them?
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    (Original post by Heirio)
    I can't give much advice, sorry, but do you know why they are doing this? Did you do anything to them?
    only confront them when they kept ditching me
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    find new friends. why would u let them give u rubbish too, tell them to **** off
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    find new friends. why would u let them give u rubbish too, tell them to **** off
    i find it hard too as i consider myself a nerd - i study it and i was the onlyone who knew what API stood for
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    So you don't know why they started to ditch you?
    Did you change your behavior at all around that time? Just trying to find the "why" to all this.

    But as the guy above said, I'd find new friends. It's likely that these guys will let you back in, and even if they do you probably shouldn't be with them. They sound like dicks.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i find it hard to make friends but this year in college - as in this college year (so September) i thought finally i found some friends and we created a discord server and a group chat and we were all every day hanging out at lunch


    Anyways fast forward to yesterday they were planning a weekend activity without me and i asked why (in class as we was allowed to talk about whatever while we work) and today i realized one member blocked me on fb, kicked me out the group chat and blocked me on discord

    I mean they ditched me a few times at break and lunch and even tried to run away from me a few weeks ago at lunch and a member bought doughnuts and didnt give me one but gave everyone else one and there is 4 of us back then - now tho there is more... He gave me the rubbish tho



    It's not fair on me - I have never had one very close friend who i can trust and rely on


    It makes me feel like I am a bad person
    **** that- id rather chill on my own. not worth getting humiliated by ur own friends. just talk with the guys in your class maybe hang out with them some time-if not just sit in the library and procrastinate etc;not worth ur time hanging with those guys
    you sound like a nice guy its not u
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i find it hard too as i consider myself a nerd - i study it and i was the onlyone who knew what API stood for
    am i missing something, what do u mean lol whats api

    and if ur a nerd it should work in ur advantage to give short, passive aggressive answers to disassociate urself from them (assuming ur quiet). like heiro said, even if there is a way to remedy the situation, u shouldnt take it
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    (Original post by Heirio)
    So you don't know why they started to ditch you?
    Did you change your behavior at all around that time? Just trying to find the "why" to all this.

    But as the guy above said, I'd find new friends. It's likely that these guys will let you back in, and even if they do you probably shouldn't be with them. They sound like dicks.

    nope
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    (Original post by angrypoliceman)
    **** that- id rather chill on my own. not worth getting humiliated by ur own friends. just talk with the guys in your class maybe hang out with them some time-if not just sit in the library and procrastinate etc;not worth ur time hanging with those guys
    you sound like a nice guy its not u
    Thanks
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    (Original post by y6hhhfdse43)
    am i missing something, what do u mean lol whats api

    and if ur a nerd it should work in ur advantage to give short, passive aggressive answers to disassociate urself from them (assuming ur quiet). like heiro said, even if there is a way to remedy the situation, u shouldnt take it
    API is Application Programming Interface
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Thanks
    don't even talk to them dude
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    (Original post by angrypoliceman)
    don't even talk to them dude
    ok i won't - tbh i think they are just being stupid
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    u deserve better. know ur worth. i had mates like this, ditched them, felt so much lighter and better. stop talking to them
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    (Original post by hahagr8stuff)
    u deserve better. know ur worth. i had mates like this, ditched them, felt so much lighter and better. stop talking to them
    i mean being alone surely is better than having fake friends
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    I think you need to change something about yourself. Maybe you have bad hygiene? Poor manners?
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    ^^ ignore this troll. some people are just nasty and will turn on you for no reason. theres no excuse, leave them
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    (Original post by hahagr8stuff)
    ^^ ignore this troll. some people are just nasty and will turn on you for no reason. theres no excuse, leave them
    firstly whos a troll


    secondly i find it hard to make friends so if i leave them i will have no one to have lunch with
 
 
 
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