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    I actually think I'm in shock with the situation and need an outside opinion on how to react as I'll have to live with her for the rest of the year!
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    Oh HELL. 👏 NO. 👏.


    Lay down the damn law for that nasty heiffer and then make her do the laundry!
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    (Original post by Qwerty_22)
    I actually think I'm in shock with the situation and need an outside opinion on how to react as I'll have to live with her for the rest of the year!
    Confrontation is the most valid option!
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    (Original post by Qwerty_22)
    I actually think I'm in shock with the situation and need an outside opinion on how to react as I'll have to live with her for the rest of the year!
    why didn't you lock your door and how do you know?
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    F*** her dad on her bed, then you're even
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    (Original post by Emz99)
    why didn't you lock your door and how do you know?
    I forgot to lock my door, but we all get on so I trusted them. And I know cause she's just messaged me to apologise
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    Did she really think you'd be ok with that. First of all, make sure you get her to wash your sheets and pay for it too. Second of all, tell her that what she did is f****** disrespectful.
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    (Original post by grl9096)
    Did she really think you'd be ok with that. First of all, make sure you get her to wash your sheets and pay for it too. Second of all, tell her that what she did is f****** disrespectful.
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    (Original post by grl9096)
    Did she really think you'd be ok with that. First of all, make sure you get her to wash your sheets and pay for it too. Second of all, tell her that what she did is f****** disrespectful.
    I go back tomorrow, she's already washed my sheets but I actually don't know what to say to her.. I don't even want to look at her
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    Not that big a deal...Just tell her to wash your sheets
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    Ask her if she fancies round two in her own bed with moi
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    (Original post by Qwerty_22)
    I go back tomorrow, she's already washed my sheets but I actually don't know what to say to her.. I don't even want to look at her
    You are in your own right not to speak to her if you don't want to.
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    (Original post by Qwerty_22)
    I actually think I'm in shock with the situation and need an outside opinion on how to react as I'll have to live with her for the rest of the year!
    Oh my God, that's out of order 😱 You need to have a chat with her but do it calmly. I would ordinarily say for now (after you've changed the sheets) sleep on it, but I can't even say that can I!
    It's best not to do the chat when you're worked up. Have a plan in place if it doesn't work–is there anyone with authority you can turn to if she doesn't become reasonable after your chat? Figure that out ahead of time and then go in there. You should stand up for yourself or she might do it again, or do worse stuff to you. Set the boundaries. Good luck x
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    (Original post by Qwerty_22)
    I go back tomorrow, she's already washed my sheets but I actually don't know what to say to her.. I don't even want to look at her
    Alright mother superior, settle down. She shouldn't have invaded your personal space but she took it upon herself to wash your sheets and contact you to apologise. Move on with your life.
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    (Original post by Qwerty_22)
    I forgot to lock my door, but we all get on so I trusted them. And I know cause she's just messaged me to apologise
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    I go back tomorrow, she's already washed my sheets but I actually don't know what to say to her.. I don't even want to look at her
    Erm excuse me? Why did you blank my advice?

    Oh right, because this thread is completely pointless since she already did the laundry and apologised.
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    (Original post by Qwerty_22)
    I actually think I'm in shock with the situation and need an outside opinion on how to react as I'll have to live with her for the rest of the year!



    it is disrespectful and intrusive

    have a go at her a bit, but don't go overboard

    tbh, she didn't have to tell you, so that's not why not to go overboard
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    (Original post by FairySparkleGirl)
    Oh my God, that's out of order 😱 You need to have a chat with her but do it calmly. I would ordinarily say for now (after you've changed the sheets) sleep on it, but I can't even say that can I!
    It's best not to do the chat when you're worked up. Have a plan in place if it doesn't work–is there anyone with authority you can turn to if she doesn't become reasonable after your chat? Figure that out ahead of time and then go in there. You should stand up for yourself or she might do it again, or do worse stuff to you. Set the boundaries. Good luck x
    Hello Sparkle girl, wanna pound it out with me in her bed?
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    (Original post by JuicyG)
    Hello Sparkle girl, wanna pound it out with me in her bed?
    Only if you think you're juicy enough, Juicy 😉
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    (Original post by TimmonaPortella)
    Alright mother superior, settle down. She shouldn't have invaded your personal space but she took it upon herself to wash your sheets and contact you to apologise. Move on with your life.
    A Valid point definitely,

    But she litrally had her own... empty bed... two doors down

    And since I only found out about an hour ago I'm still pretty pissed
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    (Original post by FairySparkleGirl)
    Only if you think you're juicy enough, Juicy 😉
    Oh believe me, I'm juicy enough.
 
 
 

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