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My Flatmate had sex with someone in my bed while I was away for the weekend! watch
- 15-10-2017 02:16
- 15-10-2017 10:26
Have sex with her bed on someone else.
- 15-10-2017 10:31
It is disrespectful and she shouldn’t have used your personal space.
How do you know no ones used the sofa?
And have you never stayed in a hotel
Say your piece then forget it
- 15-10-2017 23:29
Who really cares it's not a big deal
- 17-10-2017 11:29
Sounds like there's nothing more to do here. She could have washed your sheets and never mentioned it and you'd never have known. She clearly feels bad about it so it's not like you need to set an example in case she does something else. Also you would happily sleep in hotels etc that numerous strangers have screwed in - yes it's disrespectful but given your bed has been cleaned it's hardly the end of the world.
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- 17-10-2017 11:39
So you willingly left your bedroom open for people to just walk in (it's rude but people will do it as they know you can't stop them), your flatmate had sex on your bed (which is rude as well, but again you couldn't stop her), then she washed the sheets and apologised to you. What more do you want? Sure, it might be awkward for a bit but to be honest you shouldn't have left your door unlocked no matter how much you trust them. They could have brought anyone back that you don't know and come in and done stuff to your room. Do you trust the person she had sex with in your bed? Do you know they didn't do anything to your room?
- 17-10-2017 19:59
Tell her to wait for you next time before she does that so you're there to join in job done hahahaLast edited by Code101; 17-10-2017 at 20:00.
- 17-10-2017 20:19
Ur blowing stuff out of proportion. She already regrets her actions, apologised and washed your sheets as a further apology. It could be a lot worse in Uni; just lock your doors from now on. But other than that- dont escalate the situation. Dont become the oversensitive bad guy .