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    (Original post by Geeta_Rasoya)
    Nah you are describing a friendship
    isnt a relationship just a friendship? but just one where your 'friend' is more like family.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    No problem. I honestly would prefer to skip the relationship part and go straight into marriage, being away from her for 10 months has made me realise how beautiful her soul was, something I feel is a one in a million kind of thing.

    And the funny thing is that religiously we are allowed to get married but we can't get into a relationship. We did discuss marriage before, post-graduation ofc, but due to cultural reasons, we can't get married. Being two family orientated individuals, we always wanted our family to be able to freely mingle with the in-laws without it ever being awkward. i feel as both our parents are first-generation immigrants from totallly different regions, that mingling would be non-existent and we felt that was kind of selfish.
    don't you hate when someone eats the last pot noodle!?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    isnt a relationship just a friendship? but just one where your 'friend' is more like family.
    No thats just incest
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    No problem. I honestly would prefer to skip the relationship part and go straight into marriage, being away from her for 10 months has made me realise how beautiful her soul was, something I feel is a one in a million kind of thing.

    And the funny thing is that religiously we are allowed to get married but we can't get into a relationship. We did discuss marriage before, post-graduation ofc, but due to cultural reasons, we can't get married. Being two family orientated individuals, we always wanted our family to be able to freely mingle with the in-laws without it ever being awkward. i feel as both our parents are first-generation immigrants from totallly different regions, that mingling would be non-existent and we felt that was kind of selfish.
    Aww I read this and thought how beautiful. I honestly hope you can find a way around things culturally, because you guys sound like you're in love.
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    (Original post by JuicyG)
    don't you hate when someone eats the last pot noodle!?
    haha, you're right there are many downsides to having a big family but i feel that the good outweigh the bad
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    (Original post by FairySparkleGirl)
    Aww I read this and thought how beautiful. I honestly hope you can find a way around things culturally, because you guys sound like you're in love.
    i'm supposed to be trying to get over her!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    haha, you're right there are many downsides to having a big family but i feel that the good outweigh the bad
    It wasn't a deep comment. I literally meant, I love pot noodles. Put your todger in a pot noodle, after you've left it for 10 minutes. Just as warm as a lovely moggy
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    (Original post by Geeta_Rasoya)
    No thats just incest
    nope, a relationship is finding someone who is family but biologically isn't

    i bet for you a relationship is finding someone to have sex with and carry on... you'll soon find out that isn't the case
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    (Original post by JuicyG)
    It wasn't a deep comment. I literally meant, I love pot noodles. Put your todger in a pot noodle, after you've left it for 10 minutes. Just as warm as a lovely moggy
    ah cool
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i'm supposed to be trying to get over her!
    Sorry! 😂Forgive me, my romantic heart doesn't want you to lol. But if that's what you feel you need to do, and it sounds very intensely emotional, I would say the best way is no contact hon. It would be hard for you both otherwise.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    nope, a relationship is finding someone who is family but biologically isn't

    i bet for you a relationship is finding someone to have sex with and carry on... you'll soon find out that isn't the case
    No sorry but a relationships needs sex not just "Want to go watch the new IT with me". IT THRIVES OFF MOGGY POUNDING ACTION.
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    nope, a relationship is finding someone who is family but biologically isn't

    i bet for you a relationship is finding someone to have sex with and carry on... you'll soon find out that isn't the case
    I think you'll find someone who is like family but biologically isn't is called adopted/kidnapped and held hostage by your paedophile father and as long as there is grass on the pitch, play ball hombre
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    Sorry! 😂Forgive me, my romantic heart doesn't want you to lol. But if that's what you feel you need to do, and it sounds very intensely emotional, I would say the best way is no contact hon. It would be hard for you both otherwise.
    yeah ik, but that is easier said than done. the smallest of triggers tend to set me off into this cycle where i think of her non-stop and end up 'drunk texting' her. then i wake up when she sends me a polite yet embarrassing (on my side) rejection something triggered me earlier today and i thought it would be better for me to speak to strangers as opposed to embarrass myself again!

    i used to be those guys who'd cringe when I'd see someone heartbroken, but now I understand haha... and i also know why adele made so much money on 2!!
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    (Original post by Geeta_Rasoya)
    No sorry but a relationships needs sex not just "Want to go watch the new IT with me". IT THRIVES OFF MOGGY POUNDING ACTION.
    but then the sex will become less valuable over time... surely repetition is boring

    whereas having original jokes, that is as unique as anything
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    (Original post by JuicyG)
    I think you'll find someone who is like family but biologically isn't is called adopted/kidnapped and held hostage by your paedophile father and as long as there is grass on the pitch, play ball hombre
    noo, i'd love to marry my best friend... hence my problemo
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    yeah ik, but that is easier said than done. the smallest of triggers tend to set me off into this cycle where i think of her non-stop and end up 'drunk texting' her. then i wake up when she sends me a polite yet embarrassing (on my side) rejection something triggered me earlier today and i thought it would be better for me to speak to strangers as opposed to embarrass myself again!

    i used to be those guys who'd cringe when I'd see someone heartbroken, but now I understand haha... and i also know why adele made so much money on 2!!
    Aww bless you, if you can't find a way round it, time will heal. Are there any religious leaders you can get your strength from when it gets hard?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    noo, i'd love to marry my best friend... hence my problemo
    i don speak americano foolio
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    but then the sex will become less valuable over time... surely repetition is boring

    whereas having original jokes, that is as unique as anything
    No because if the love and chemistry is there the sex is great and you can always do new things in the bedroom, but with "original jokes" see how long that lasts.
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    (Original post by Geeta_Rasoya)
    No because if the love and chemistry is there the sex is great and you can always do new things in the bedroom, but with "original jokes" see how long that lasts.
    there is so much you can do with sex... but my jokes on the other hand, have been funny since the 90s love
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    there is so much you can do with sex... but my jokes on the other hand, have been funny since the 90s love
    what about anal? how do you feel about that
 
 
 
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