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    Right so i went on my first tinder date last Monday night with this guy in the year above that i have been speaking to for about a week. His texts were always very flirty and very constant, he would reply within the minute i sent my last message.

    We hadn't originally planned to go out on Monday but he was being quite persistent that we saw each other (not in a creepy way)

    We met at the pub and it went really well, realised i did fancy him and felt good about the whole thing. He walked me home and text me when i got in and we made plans to go for drinks again on Thursday night.

    The following night (Tuesday) i was out with my girlfriends and he knew, we had been texting constantly all day, very flirty again. He asked what i was wearing so i sent him pictures (fully clothed) and he was saying how good i looked etc etc.

    So that night i was out with my girls, admittedly it was a **** night as people were falling out etc, i told him this whilst i was out and he saw oh come to mine for a cuddle. I had a couple of drinks by this point so thought why not, got a taxi to his and all was fine. He said to me he didn't want to have sex as he wanted to wait and do it properly, i agreed so we just chatted and fell asleep.

    Next day i left his and he text me straight away and the rest of that day, in onto the night when i has out with his friends. Thursday he text me in the morning, but didn't hear much after that and then friday he sends me a message saying the next couple of weeks are so so busy for him (dissertation) and then that was it, no reply or texts since,

    What does this mean? am i wasting my time thinking about him and should i just forget about the whole thing??

    Any advice would be v helpful xx
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    Dissertations can take up a lot of time. Maybe you should text him and see if he wants any help from you, like bringing him food or snacks. Just respect his schedule. He can't make you his priority all the time.
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