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    If i ever found a gf how long do I wait before going on holiday and moving in
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    There isn't a standard rule, you'll just know.
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    When you're both ready.

    Get the girlfriend first though.
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    How long is a piece of string?
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    Well I need to know. Do you do it after the first date
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    (Original post by Themainone14)
    Well I need to know. Do you do it after the first date
    No, that's way too soon.
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    Obviously not after the first date. Get a girlfriend first and you will know when the time is right, no sense rushing into things.
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    Where and how do I get one though
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    (Original post by Themainone14)
    Where and how do I get one though
    Try Poundland. Or if you want to go upmarket, try M&S.
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    (Original post by Chaz254)
    Try Poundland. Or if you want to go upmarket, try M&S.
    Don't be ****ing rude. I have never even kissed a girl or held ones hand. Girls don't even smile and talk to me and I'm 24 and autistic so how the **** do I get a gf
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    What do I do. I went to the gym today and no girls even looked at me they didn't even smile
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    (Original post by Themainone14)
    What do I do. I went to the gym today and no girls even looked at me they didn't even smile
    Go to the gym for your own fitness, not to get girls.
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    (Original post by UWS)
    Go to the gym for your own fitness, not to get girls.
    Um if I don't lose weight I won't get a girl. WHERE THE HELL DO I GET THEM THEN
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    (Original post by Themainone14)
    Um if I don't lose weight I won't get a girl. WHERE THE HELL DO I GET THEM THEN
    You are missing the point completely.

    Go to the gym to lose weight. You seem to be going to the gym for the sole purpose of getting girls.
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    So how do i get a gf you thick headed got tell me that
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    (Original post by Themainone14)
    So how do i get a gf you thick headed got tell me that
    By not acting like a d*** when people don't tell you what you want to hear
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    By not acting like a d*** when people don't tell you what you want to hear
    I'm not acting that way but I'm not being told how I can get a gf, where to meet her, what to say first. I can't just go up to some random girl in public and sat HI BABE NICE WEATHER FANCY A COFFEE
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    (Original post by Themainone14)
    I'm not acting that way but I'm not being told how I can get a gf, where to meet her, what to say first. I can't just go up to some random girl in public and sat HI BABE NICE WEATHER FANCY A COFFEE
    You are acting in that way when you say

    "you thick headed got tell me that"
    " WHERE THE HELL DO I GET THEM THEN"


    I can't say much on how you meet a girl, but I can say that they're not objects.
    They're not a 'thing' or something everyone "gets". They are people.
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    (Original post by Themainone14)
    I'm not acting that way but I'm not being told how I can get a gf, where to meet her, what to say first. I can't just go up to some random girl in public and sat HI BABE NICE WEATHER FANCY A COFFEE
    First of all, you don't just find a girlfriend. It's not something you reach into a drain for your lost paper boat.

    Get new hobbies and interests, meet new people, work on your confidence and stop being entitled to getting girls. Then we can talk about going on dates.

    Secondly, what's wrong with asking about the weather? Small talk is a good way to get to know people.
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    My ****ing stepbrother has spent the weekend with his gf i have been upset again without one. All i have done this weekend is volunteering and going to the gym but i'm sleeping on my own tonight of course they are things you get
 
 
 
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