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    Well pushing her around IS abusive - plenty of abusers regret their behaviour after the fact. What happened, happened. All you can do now is try and change yourself for the better - get some therapy and deal with your anger management issues.
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    Sounds like an *******. Don't listen to what other people say about you if you don't think you're abusive yourself. Abusive is someone who does it constantly.

    They seem to be the more abusive one here (verbally). If you keep getting affected by them it just eggs them on. Ignore it.
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    You were abusive.
    She clearly is still angry about it
    It sounds as if you have some anger problems too
    This may or may not stem from the fact you say you too have suffered abuse
    For your own sake seek some help to deal with it all and move on
    She will deal with it herself in her own way
    There’s not much you can do about what she’s saying, especially as it’s the truth.
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    (Original post by Foxy011)
    I know it is, it's the fact she kept saying it over and over again months later, just to upset me. That's mental abuse.
    Well it's a pretty serious thing. I wouldn't be totally over it in a couple of months later. I'd guess she keeps bringing it up because it's still in her mind and she's struggling to move on not purely to upset you. This is assault - it's not a 'lets say sorry and then we never need to mention it again' thing. You guys just need to go your separate ways and both give each other time and space to deal with this.
 
 
 
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