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    Hi all. Im in a very difficult situation.

    Me and my gf are Sexually frustrated
    - we cant have sex because my extended family is always at home
    - her family is always at home too
    - I do have money to stay for a hotel ror the whole weekend if needed but the problem is that shes a virgin so if I pay for a hotel theres 50% chance I might not be able to get in and waste my money

    - im not sure if she would agree 5o going to a hotel because its gonna be her first time

    - our relationship is 5 months old but stable , we are able to do everything couples do except having sex.

    - she's the sexiest girl I have ever dated

    - I have lost a number of girls due to lack of sex and its affecting me mentally


    I just don't know what to do anymore im sick and tired of losing good girls due to not having sex, my current GF is really good to me and I know imma lose her if we carry on like this.



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    I've taken girls virginities in hotel rooms. You feel so badass, especially at the thought of the hotel worker who has to clean up after you.
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    (Original post by Ganjaweed Rebel)
    I've taken girls virginities in hotel rooms. You feel so badass, especially at the thought of the hotel worker who has to clean up after you.
    Thing is I dont think shes gonna agree to losing it at her hotel, shes 18 and 19.

    I have the money for hotel I gott no problem, the biggest problem here is that even if she agrees and we go theres still a huge chance we wont have sex cos of how painful it is for virgins

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    (Original post by nerdling_CompSci)
    Thing is I dont think shes gonna agree to losing it at her hotel, shes 18 and 19.

    I have the money for hotel I gott no problem, the biggest problem here is that even if she agrees and we go theres still a huge chance we wont have sex cos of how painful it is for virgins

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    Buy some lube and take it slow.
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    Where can I buy lube

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    Rent a car
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    (Original post by TaintedLight)
    Rent a car
    Release the stick and ramp it up to gear 5
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    You can buy lube at bloody Asda. It might be a tad embarrassing but if you're so desperate to have sex then you shouldn't mind. Have you tried actually discussing this with your girlfriend? You say you don't know if she'd be happy in a hotel room, so check with her first and then this wouldn't even be an issue. Your lack of communication seems to be the main problem here.

    To be honest losing your virginity in a hotel sounds quite nice (depending on the hotel).
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    (Original post by hedylamarr)
    You can buy lube at bloody Asda. It might be a tad embarrassing but if you're so desperate to have sex then you shouldn't mind. Have you tried actually discussing this with your girlfriend? You say you don't know if she'd be happy in a hotel room, so check with her first and then this wouldn't even be an issue. Your lack of communication seems to be the main problem here.

    To be honest losing your virginity in a hotel sounds quite nice (depending on the hotel).
    No I haven't discussed it with her, is they anyway that I can manipulate asking her to go ? So she actually does agree ?

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    (Original post by nerdling_CompSci)
    Hi all. Im in a very difficult situation.

    Me and my gf are Sexually frustrated
    - we cant have sex because my extended family is always at home
    - her family is always at home too
    - I do have money to stay for a hotel ror the whole weekend if needed but the problem is that shes a virgin so if I pay for a hotel theres 50% chance I might not be able to get in and waste my money

    - im not sure if she would agree 5o going to a hotel because its gonna be her first time

    - our relationship is 5 months old but stable , we are able to do everything couples do except having sex.

    - she's the sexiest girl I have ever dated

    - I have lost a number of girls due to lack of sex and its affecting me mentally


    I just don't know what to do anymore im sick and tired of losing good girls due to not having sex, my current GF is really good to me and I know imma lose her if we carry on like this.



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    0/10, no sane person would date someone like that.
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    (Original post by Ciel.)
    0/10, no sane person would date someone like that.
    What do u mean ?

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    (Original post by nerdling_CompSci)
    - I do have money to stay for a hotel ror the whole weekend if needed but the problem is that shes a virgin so if I pay for a hotel theres 50% chance I might not be able to get in and waste my money
    You make it sound like you've just bought a lottery ticket. Spending time with your girlfriend is a 'waste of money'? Get out of here.

    (Original post by nerdling_CompSci)
    - im not sure if she would agree 5o going to a hotel because its gonna be her first time
    Why not? Has she explicitly said this?

    (Original post by nerdling_CompSci)
    - our relationship is 5 months old but stable , we are able to do everything couples do except having sex.
    Then find a way to have sex with her, talk to her and figure something out.

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    - I have lost a number of girls due to lack of sex and its affecting me mentally
    So you weren't compatible with them, their loss. Find a girl who is in a similar situation to you in terms of how often you're able to have sex. That way you are both in understanding.

    (Original post by nerdling_CompSci)
    I just don't know what to do anymore im sick and tired of losing good girls due to not having sex, my current GF is really good to me and I know imma lose her if we carry on like this.
    If she really loves you, she will not leave you because you and her both have parents staying at home 24/7, preventing you from having sex. That sounds stupid and if she did that, she isn't worth your time.

    As I said, talk to her about it! You've already jumped to conclusions about losing her before you've even suggested the hotel idea.
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    (Original post by nerdling_CompSci)
    No I haven't discussed it with her, is they anyway that I can manipulate asking her to go ? So she actually does agree ?

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    Either you are terrible with words or a terrible person. Why would you try to 'manipulate' anyone?

    You just need to ask something along the lines "Do you want to spend the night together in a hotel room this weekend?". Or arrange a date and offer to book a hotel room for the night.
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    (Original post by nerdling_CompSci)
    No I haven't discussed it with her, is they anyway that I can manipulate asking her to go ? So she actually does agree ?

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    manipulate? :lolwut:
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    (Original post by Ganjaweed Rebel)
    I've taken girls virginities in hotel rooms. You feel so badass, especially at the thought of the hotel worker who has to clean up after you.
    Glad to see someone cares about the working class!
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    Glad to see someone cares about the working class!
    I love the working classes
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    (Original post by Ganjaweed Rebel)
    I've taken girls virginities in hotel rooms. You feel so badass, especially at the thought of the hotel worker who has to clean up after you.
    You sound really creepy lmao
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    You sound really creepy lmao
    I am really creepy.
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    (Original post by UWS)
    You make it sound like you've just bought a lottery ticket. Spending time with your girlfriend is a 'waste of money'? Get out of here.



    Why not? Has she explicitly said this?



    Then find a way to have sex with her, talk to her and figure something out.



    So you weren't compatible with them, their loss. Find a girl who is in a similar situation to you in terms of how often you're able to have sex. That way you are both in understanding.



    If she really loves you, she will not leave you because you and her both have parents staying at home 24/7, preventing you from having sex. That sounds stupid and if she did that, she isn't worth your time.

    As I said, talk to her about it! You've already jumped to conclusions about losing her before you've even suggested the hotel idea.
    Thank you vert much for this reply. I will be talking to her tomorrow about going on a date and then after hotel. Fingers crossed will update u guys

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    Tell her to let you know when she's ready then find the nearest toilets/bushes.
 
 
 
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