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    I plan on having sex under the covers/in the dark.

    I want to do it so I don't see anything. (I hate semen)

    Is that a common thing to do?

    I saw it on AMerican Pie so I know it happens.
    I've also read about women wanting sex in the dark.
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    im pretty sure that happens
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    Why would you not want to see your partner during sex though. Tbh the visual aspect is very important for me
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    (Original post by Catsarefamily)
    I plan on having sex under the covers/in the dark.

    I want to do it so I don't see anything. (I hate semen)

    Is that a common thing to do?

    I saw it on AMerican Pie so I know it happens.
    I've also read about women wanting sex in the dark.
    So... You like pie? :sexface:
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    Yeah its common.

    However, if you only ever have sex in the dark, your partner will eventually question you.

    To prevent him questioning you, buy glow in the dark condoms, they're much fun.
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    (Original post by Kevin Hodge)
    So... You like pie? :sexface:
    Yes, I like pies, apple pie!

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    Yeah its common.

    However, if you only ever have sex in the dark, your partner will eventually question you.

    To prevent him questioning you, buy glow in the dark condoms, they're much fun.
    Sex normally happens at night,
    I also want to have sex with condoms only too.
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    Yeah, normally it does.

    But what would you do in a hypothetical situation if he approached you in the early evening for sex? Tell him to wait?
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    (Original post by shameful_burrito)
    Why would you not want to see your partner during sex though. Tbh the visual aspect is very important for me
    I don't want to see muscus.
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    (Original post by utr)
    Yeah, normally it does.

    But what would you do in a hypothetical situation if he approached you in the early evening for sex? Tell him to wait?
    I have no idea. I have no idea how often I even want to have sex. I might tell her that I just want to cuddle.
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    (Original post by Catsarefamily)
    I have no idea. I have no idea how often I even want to have sex. I might tell her that I just want to cuddle.

    Apologies, I wrongly presumed your gender.


    Just don't rush it, it'll all happen when you're both ready.
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    (Original post by Catsarefamily)
    I plan on having sex under the covers/in the dark.

    I want to do it so I don't see anything. (I hate semen)

    Is that a common thing to do?

    I saw it on AMerican Pie so I know it happens.
    I've also read about women wanting sex in the dark.
    what if u end up with fingers in her butt
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    (Original post by michael spearing)
    what if u end up with fingers in her butt
    Oh my gosh, no! That's disgusting and sick!
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    (Original post by Catsarefamily)
    oh my gosh, no! That's disgusting and sick!
    well, no what if she likes it? and it could be a honest mistake when ur in pitch black
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    (Original post by Michael Spearing)
    well, no what if she likes it? and it could be a honest mistake when ur in pitch black
    Um, nope, it's not happening.... I know what the human body looks and feels like as I have one. The only thing that would be happening is sex under the covers on while laying on our backs.
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    (Original post by Catsarefamily)
    Um, nope, it's not happening.... I know what the human body looks and feels like as I have one. The only thing that would be happening is sex under the covers on while laying on our backs.
    How do you do it when you're both on your backs? Wouldn't you be laying side by side? :confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused:
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    (Original post by utr)
    Yeah its common.

    However, if you only ever have sex in the dark, your partner will eventually question you.

    To prevent him questioning you, buy glow in the dark condoms, they're much fun.
    Reminds me of a joke....

    A husband and wife have sex in the dark for 2 years

    One night the wife turns on the light and says to her husband, "Explain the dildo". To which he replies, "explain the 3 kids".
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    How do you do it when you're both on your backs? Wouldn't you be laying side by side? :confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused:
    I'm talking about normal sex, missionary.
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    silly question how old are you. your only want sex at night with no lights safe sex excellent and just the missionary position.plus no question of touching. its clear youve never had sex.

    to start when you have a partner just cuddle and take your time learning its never good the first time. ps secretions are not disgusting.
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    (Original post by Catsarefamily)
    I plan on having sex under the covers/in the dark.

    I want to do it so I don't see anything. (I hate semen)

    Is that a common thing to do?

    I saw it on AMerican Pie so I know it happens.
    I've also read about women wanting sex in the dark.
    You naughty boy Jameson getting under the covers all night. How normil. Try doing it in a wachenmachen next time. 10/10 would spin again
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    You're perfectly normal for what you want, although you sound like you have a lot of rules which is likely to be a turn off. Sure, insist on using a condom as that's just common sense and healthy. However, limiting yourself to in the dark, under the covers, only one position is likely to make it more difficult for you. You'll probably find it gets boring and your partner gets bored too. You seem to think sex is pretty systematic and only one way to do it.

    Unfortunately, sex can get messy and it's something you'll have to "look at" at some point. Maybe you aren't ready to have sex until you become more understanding that you can't control every aspect of it. Missionary isn't the "normal" position, and there isn't such a thing as "normal" sex and plenty of sex happens in the daytime too which isn't "abnormal". The covers can also get in the way of things too.

    However, you're perfectly entitled to having your wants when it comes to sex, but it might be worth having a little wiggle room so you don't turn a lot of potential partners away.
 
 
 
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