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    (Original post by Slowbro93)
    So you want to have sex, yet you feel odd about French kissing. Is your GF okay about all of this? And not offended in any way?
    Yes, I do want to have sex.
    I've never done it, I do know what it involves:,tongues in mouth moving and saliva. There are other kisses that can be done like eskimo and butterfly kisses.

    I don't have a girlfriend, I've never really had one.
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      (Original post by Catsarefamily)
      Yes, I do want to have sex.
      I've never done it, I do know what it involves:,tongues in mouth moving and saliva. There are other kisses that can be done like eskimo and butterfly kisses.

      I don't have a girlfriend, I've never really had one.
      What girl is going to want to have sex with you in the way you describe? You might have to get a time machine and go back to Victorian times.
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      (Original post by Tabstercat)
      What girl is going to want to have sex with you in the way you describe? You might have to get a time machine and go back to Victorian times.
      One who loves me and understands that I find it all uncomfortable?.
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      People only do this when their partner is butterz.
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        (Original post by Catsarefamily)
        One who loves me and understands that I find it all uncomfortable?.
        I think you need to find someone that will help you with your intimacy issues, not someone who will just accept and ignore them.
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        you have a phobia and need to get help. its also possible you have ocd.
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        (Original post by Catsarefamily)
        Is it possible to give oral sex to a female human without touching the vulva/clitoris?

        Like putting cling foil over the area?
        Im dying 'I love you, can you just chuck this cling film on your vagina please it's icky'

        Kissing is basically swapping bodily fluids, when you have a partner and love them you care less about the stuff you thought would be bothering beforehand. Don't worry too much, do what you want at the time. Although if you do it in the dark all the time constantly, it does imply one of yous isnt getting much from the visuals if you get my drift.
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        (Original post by Catsarefamily)
        I plan on having sex under the covers/in the dark.

        I want to do it so I don't see anything. (I hate semen)

        Is that a common thing to do?

        I saw it on AMerican Pie so I know it happens.
        I've also read about women wanting sex in the dark.
        Um lol its up to you really
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        I do this to. It's a confidence thing for me. Unless I am comfortable with the person.
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        You guys can't see this dude is trolling? damn lmaoo :laugh::laugh:
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        (Original post by Catsarefamily)
        Um, nope, it's not happening.... I know what the human body looks and feels like as I have one. The only thing that would be happening is sex under the covers on while laying on our backs.
        Both of you on your backs? Sounds like a logistical nightmare there lad
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        (Original post by RAFLiam)
        You guys can't see this dude is trolling? damn lmaoo :laugh::laugh:
        Avatar-less low rep accounts are often such a varied group of idiots that it's impossible to tell.
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        (Original post by Catsarefamily)
        I plan on having sex under the covers/in the dark.

        I want to do it so I don't see anything. (I hate semen)

        Is that a common thing to do?

        I saw it on AMerican Pie so I know it happens.
        I've also read about women wanting sex in the dark.
        uh, i think if you told your partner about it not being about you not liking how they look, but more something about how you feel, if they're understanding, it would be fine? i feel like having sex exclusively in the dark can be construed as you not thinking they are attractive. but yeah, it happens.
        if you do the whole thing under the covers, its really warm and sweaty af though, can be gross
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        (Original post by RAFLiam)
        You guys can't see this dude is trolling? damn lmaoo :laugh::laugh:
        Doubt it. he's been here for years and claims to be autistic.

        OP - I think you might actually be asexual. You should look it up.
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        (Original post by Retired_Messiah)
        Both of you on your backs? Sounds like a logistical nightmare there lad
        LMAO
       
       
       
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