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    im not really sure but he started tlking to me and saying sorry for believing others and dumping me for no reason. then he like says jokes and starts random conversation. it has been a few days now since we started tlking again. idk whether he likes me or is trying to be a frnd. he did ask me wht i would say if he asks me out again and did tell me that he likes me- only 40% sure rest r unsure. so idk wht to do and i have no clue whts with him
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    (Original post by AlinaReji24)
    and he did tell me that he likes me
    surely if he told you he likes you, then i guess so?
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    (Original post by mez_merising)
    surely if he told you he likes you, then i guess so?
    he's really unsure so idk.
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    (Original post by M4cc4n4)
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    sorry
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    Here's an idea:

    You: Do you still like me?
    Ex BF: Yes
    You: Great, lets go out.

    You: Do you still like me?
    Ex BF: No
    You: Ok no problem

    Job done
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    sorry
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    (Original post by utr)
    Here's an idea:

    You: Do you still like me?
    Ex BF: Yes
    You: Great, lets go out.

    You: Do you still like me?
    Ex BF: No
    You: Ok no problem

    Job done
    it would work if he replies with simple answers. which he doesnt. he says yh 40% i like u but im nt sure abt the rest so wht am i meant to do other than saying okay
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    tbh if he's 'unsure' then its better to just leave it. better get a guy/girl thats totally committed or none at all
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    it would work if he replies with simple answers. which he doesnt. he says yh 40% i like u but im nt sure abt the rest so wht am i meant to do other than saying okay
    If you ask him a closed question the only answer he can give you is yes or no.

    If he doesn't, just say, I want a yes or no answer.

    If he says no, he says no, move on.
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    (Original post by AlinaReji24)
    im not really sure but he started tlking to me and saying sorry for believing others and dumping me for no reason. then he like says jokes and starts random conversation. it has been a few days now since we started tlking again. idk whether he likes me or is trying to be a frnd. he did ask me wht i would say if he asks me out again and did tell me that he likes me- only 40% sure rest r unsure. so idk wht to do and i have no clue whts with him
    The only question you need to answer is

    Do YOU want a relationship with him?

    If the answer is no everything else if irrelevant, you don't care if he likes you or not because you are not interested in pursuing him, so it doesn't matter.

    However the tone of you post suggests you do care, so I would expect the answer to that question is yes. So the you need to ask yourself why he dumped you, are his reasons still unresolved and is he coming back to you because he couldn't find anyone else?

    With regards to the latter, don't be the consolation prize cos he will ultimately hurt you when he does find someone else, there is never a good reason for being in relationship just for the sake of being in a relationship until someone better comes along.

    If his reasons for dumping are unresolved, that needs to happen before you can successfully conduct a relationship with him, cos they will pop up again and may result in a redumping.

    As a final note if just really want to know if he likes you ASK HIM!
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    (Original post by hippieglitter)
    The only question you need to answer is

    Do YOU want a relationship with him?

    If the answer is no everything else if irrelevant, you don't care if he likes you or not because you are not interested in pursuing him, so it doesn't matter.

    However the tone of you post suggests you do care, so I would expect the answer to that question is yes. So the you need to ask yourself why he dumped you, are his reasons still unresolved and is he coming back to you because he couldn't find anyone else?

    With regards to the latter, don't be the consolation prize cos he will ultimately hurt you when he does find someone else, there is never a good reason for being in relationship just for the sake of being in a relationship until someone better comes along.

    If his reasons for dumping are unresolved, that needs to happen before you can successfully conduct a relationship with him, cos they will pop up again and may result in a redumping.

    As a final note if just really want to know if he likes you ASK HIM!


    well he dumped me cuz someone told him a rumour about me that i didnt even do. he knws that im inncent now and that he was a bit too mean for the quick actions. i'm not whether i like him. its a question mark unfortunately cuz if he decided to dump me for wht someone said without even asking me or trying to find out the trust that means he didnt understand me.
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    find some one else a d leave him
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    The question should be "Do I want to be with a guy who dumped me over a false rumour". Because honestly he sounds like a **** :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by Avaia)
    The question should be "Do I want to be with a guy who dumped me over a false rumour". Because honestly he sounds like a **** :rolleyes:
    idk tbh. i agree with u but ppl could be lead into mistakes. ur right though in a way. i shouldnt even be tlking but im not a person who takes revenge so i guess he could just be my frnd
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    (Original post by Rain4)
    he's
    he's wht???
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    well obviously. he liked you enough to become your boyfriend once upon a time
 
 
 
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