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    so i recently found that this section of TSR existed... honestly thought TSR was just for A-Levels & careers.... but with the little time I've seen this, I'm gobsmacked by the number of Muslim girls who either want to lose their virginity or who are scared they won't get married.

    to answer the first one: Muslim or not muslim, WAIT TILL MARRIAGE! it'd be such a beautiful experience to lose your virginity (something so sentimental, whatever society makes it look, to your special guy who hopefully if he's sane will be as fresh as you). like Jane's grandma says, crumple up a flower and try to make it look how it was initially... you can't.... meaning, you'll regret having soft sex with some nobody 5 years down the line, JUST WAITTTT IT OUT

    to answer the second one: ik everyone is either 'relationships goal' hungry or just wants that somebody to tell their days to/scream their stresses too but fate will catch up with you and WILL surprise you. don't wonder because i can assure you, however ugly you think you're, your knight in shining armour is coming.... honestly, i can hear his horse clickidy clicking right now, i swear hehe. also, live your life now, cook up your dreams because 10 years later or whatever, when you do get married you'll be thinking to yourself why was i ever worrying, i should have of focused all of that stress into something worthwhile at the time. so chase that dream job of yours, create a business, do whatever it is you want to do and share that journey with your husband/wife. because when you do get married, your other half will want a life story and it'd be so boring if you was to say i just worrying about getting married to you, instead try to out-story him/her!

    rant over, what do you guys think?
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    (Original post by ozilll)
    so i recently found that this section of TSR existed... honestly thought TSR was just for A-Levels & careers.... but with the little time I've seen this, I'm gobsmacked by the number of Muslim girls who either want to lose their virginity or who are scared they won't get married.

    to answer the first one: Muslim or not muslim, WAIT TILL MARRIAGE! it'd be such a beautiful experience to lose your virginity (something so sentimental, whatever society makes it look, to your special guy who hopefully if he's sane will be as fresh as you). like Jane's grandma says, crumple up a flower and try to make it look how it was initially... you can't.... meaning, you'll regret having soft sex with some nobody 5 years down the line, JUST WAITTTT IT OUT

    to answer the second one: ik everyone is either 'relationships goal' hungry or just wants that somebody to tell their days to/scream their stresses too but fate will catch up with you and WILL surprise you. don't wonder because i can assure you, however ugly you think you're, your knight in shining armour is coming.... honestly, i can hear his horse clickidy clicking right now, i swear hehe. also, live your life now, cook up your dreams because 10 years later or whatever, when you do get married you'll be thinking to yourself why was i ever worrying, i should have of focused all of that stress into something worthwhile at the time. so chase that dream job of yours, create a business, do whatever it is you want to do and share that journey with your husband/wife. because when you do get married, your other half will want a life story and it'd be so boring if you was to say i just worrying about getting married to you, instead try to out-story him/her!

    rant over, what do you guys think?
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