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    I've always thought I was hetrosexual but recently I've realised that I rarely an erection when I see a physically appealing woman in public, I do notice if she has breasts or a buttock but that's just about it, if I do have an erection my mind doesn't feel anything, I feel normal. I thought that I had a low testosterone level.

    I don't think about sex that often, I do want it but there isn't anyone I want to do it with. I would only do it with someone I was romantically involved with. I'm not too sure how often it would happen though.

    I do sometimes watch porn and my body responds to the visual stimuli but I've never mastrubated to porn, I don't understand the point of it.

    I thought that this is what people were normally like, like only having sex with someone they care about.

    I don't understand how someone can talk or think about another person sexually and claim that they love their partner, as far as I'm concerned that's cheating...

    I can't understand casual sex at all.

    I also don't believe in or understand dating.
    It's all based on lust.
    There's no friendship.
    The idea of going on a date makes no sense to me. Shouldn't you already know the person as you're supposed to be their friend?
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    (Original post by GokuBlackmasu)
    I've always thought I was hetrosexual but recently I've realised that I rarely an erection when I see a physically appealing woman in public, I do notice if she has breasts or a buttock but that's just about it, if I do have an erection my mind doesn't feel anything, I feel normal. I thought that I had a low testosterone level.

    I don't think about sex that often, I do want it but there isn't anyone I want to do it with. I would only do it with someone I was romantically involved with. I'm not too sure how often it would happen though.

    I do sometimes watch porn and my body responds to the visual stimuli but I've never mastrubated to porn, I don't understand the point of it.

    I thought that this is what people were normally like, like only having sex with someone they care about.

    I don't understand how someone can talk or think about another person sexually and claim that they love their partner, as far as I'm concerned that's cheating...

    I can't understand casual sex at all.

    I also don't believe in or understand dating.
    It's all based on lust.
    There's no friendship.
    I'm in the same boat as you - though I'm not really a porn person. I do think that dating is important though, as a way to meet new people that you could connect with romantically and as friends - I would say hooking up at a club etc is more based on lust, and with dating you get to talk and learn more about people so that you can build a connection - but I wouldn't be the best person to know about stuff like that :/
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    (Original post by GokuBlackmasu)
    I've always thought I was hetrosexual but recently I've realised that I rarely an erection when I see a physically appealing woman in public, I do notice if she has breasts or a buttock but that's just about it, if I do have an erection my mind doesn't feel anything, I feel normal. I thought that I had a low testosterone level.

    I don't think about sex that often, I do want it but there isn't anyone I want to do it with. I would only do it with someone I was romantically involved with. I'm not too sure how often it would happen though.

    I do sometimes watch porn and my body responds to the visual stimuli but I've never mastrubated to porn, I don't understand the point of it.

    I thought that this is what people were normally like, like only having sex with someone they care about.

    I don't understand how someone can talk or think about another person sexually and claim that they love their partner, as far as I'm concerned that's cheating...

    I can't understand casual sex at all.

    I also don't believe in or understand dating.
    It's all based on lust.
    There's no friendship.
    What is your question?

    Are you a freak? No, many people are like you with low sexual feelings.

    Are you special? No, there are people like you.

    Is it weird to feel that way? I dont think so. Sex drive varies according to individuals and other factors.

    Do you need a girlfriend? Probably, yes, to check whether you are actually straight or homosexual.

    Am I bored? Yeah.
 
 
 
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