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    I really wish I could have answers to why people don't look beyond appearance! everyone says "do not judge the book by its cover" never has that been the case...
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    (Original post by jamierobinson94)
    My best friend at the time told a girl that he liked her back in secondary school and then then the girl started yelling at whole playground humiliating him.
    That's secondary school. At that age, no matter the gender, kids are absolute DICKS. I wouldn't take anything said at secondary school to heart. People chill out a lot when you hit college.
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    (Original post by jamierobinson94)
    Then explain education about being a right or privilege?
    I'm not sure what you mean?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    If girls like shy, inexperienced guys? Why do the arrogant guys who sleep with any girl they meet on a night out can easily get a girlfriend?
    Who told you girls like shy inexperienced guys? Because they lied to you
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    (Original post by whocares?123)
    Who told you girls like shy inexperienced guys? Because they lied to you
    I hear from people in general.
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    Girls tend to notice the louder, more confident guys more. True some girls like shy guys but you just have to put yourself out there more in order to garner interest.
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    (Original post by Multitalented me)
    Girls tend to notice the louder, more confident guys more. True some girls like shy guys but you just have to put yourself out there more in order to garner interest.
    It’s borederline impossible
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    It’s borederline impossible
    You just have to push yourself out of your comfort zone more. I was used to be very quiet & shy & worried about embarrassing myself & getting rejected a lot, but now I've got quite a bit of experience talking to girls, even asking some out & although I've not had any success so far I've become more & more comfortable with putting myself out there & interacting with them without having negative thoughts in my mind. Initially it's hard but it is possible with a positive mindset, believe in yourself & be genuine
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    (Original post by Multitalented me)
    You just have to push yourself out of your comfort zone more. I was used to be very quiet & shy & worried about embarrassing myself & getting rejected a lot, but now I've got quite a bit of experience talking to girls, even asking some out & although I've not had any success so far I've become more & more comfortable with putting myself out there & interacting with them without having negative thoughts in my mind. Initially it's hard but it is possible with a positive mindset, believe in yourself & be genuine
    Aww that’s a sweet motivational comment. Almost a month ago I’m not how or why I wasn’t even trying but I’ve snogged a girl who’s way out my league a few times at a night out. It’s a big deal to me since I’ll be 23 tomorrow and it was my first snog.
 
 
 
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