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    I'm 21 but still a virgin and there's this girl at uni that I like. I know she's had a few boyfriends before so she is more experienced than me. The thing is, I tend to finish quite quickly when I masturbate and I am worried this will happen when I get a girlfriend. The reason I finish quickly might be because I go to fast, in which case it shouldn't be too much of a problem when I actually have sex. However there is still a chance I will finish too early when I have sex. Would this be a deal breaker for you if you had sex with your new boyfriend and he came too early, even if it was just the first time you guys had had sex?
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    Hmmm I was also a virgin too and my bf is experienced so I literally was very nervous and scared at the same time but if lets say I was in her shoes finishing rather quickly would and would not be a deal breaker but it might turn her off immediately as women tend to take longer to get an orgasm than men so I would say it might as sometimes I hate it when my bf gets too excited and finishes too quickly.

    But as long as you can do it again and make sure it lasts longer.

    Good luck.
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    Does she know you are a virgin?

    I would say get comfortable with each other before bringing up the topic about sex. I'm sure she'd understand that you're inexperienced anyway, don't worry about it.
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    relax and stop worrying. it will always be less than perfect your first time, chill you will improve.
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    Mate, You gotta slow down.
    If you finish too fast it can effect you in later life, pace yourself
 
 
 
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