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    I don't believe in talking to someone because you find them attractive and want to be their romantic partner.

    It means that you're talking to them for the wrong reason, you don't want to be their friend.

    You should talk to someone because you want to be their friend.

    if anything happens it happens. if not then you have a friend.
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    partner is immoral?

    I don't believe in talking to someone because you find them attractive and want to be their romantic partner.

    It means that you're talking to them for the wrong reason, you don't want to be their friend.

    You should talk to someone because you want to be their friend.

    if anything happens it happens. if not then you have a friend.
    If it doesn't happen and you are finding it difficult to move on then you are doing more harm than good to yourself by being their friend.

    However, I think it is not the case that you are 'talking to them for the wrong reason' - I think you can be interested in someone but back off and leave it if it is not mutual. If they stay friends, so be it - if not, no harm done.

    In my view, if someone is talking to someone else purely for pursuing a relationship then there's nothing wrong with that, but that is a matter of opinion and yours differs to mine.
 
 
 
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