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    (Original post by KingCobrain)
    Your girl sleeping with someone else is sooo much deeper
    y is it much deeper that girls sleeps with many guys and when boys sleep with many girls it's okay(because of their pride apparently), honestly don't understand.
    If you acc like this girl then try to make her your girl, if u only want her as a friend with benefits then u should deal with the fact that she can sleep with other people too, otherwise then forget her.
    That's all I can say
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    (Original post by KingCobrain)
    I am a man.

    And my question is can I even start a dignified relationship after this.

    And call me what you want but I don't believe in my queen having 'just sexual partners' playing around where our kids come out.
    You need to actually show you care then. Show that she isn't just someone you want to sleep with and you want more than just sex!
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    (Original post by KingCobrain)
    It's about character beforehand though, you need to hold off on commitment till you've assessed character.

    Definitely hold off commitment until you've assessed character! I agree!

    I've also assessed your character as a misogynist who doesn't deserve the time of day. I hope she meets a lovely man. Which obviously isn't you
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    how old are you?
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    Wow wtf did I just read?! Change your name to Nobrain because motherf*cker you’re brain dead. And to think you’re the sperm that won? Your fathers sack must be filled with L’s. Can’t actually believe you exist
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    Wow wtf did I just read?! Change your name to Nobrain because motherf*cker you’re brain dead. And to think you’re the sperm that won? Your fathers sack must be filled with L’s. Can’t actually believe you exist
    Why, so what you're saying is I can't make her my girl because of the disrespect?
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    (Original post by amyfordd)
    Definitely hold off commitment until you've assessed character! I agree!

    I've also assessed your character as a misogynist who doesn't deserve the time of day. I hope she meets a lovely man. Which obviously isn't you
    I am lovely I'm just not saving these hoes
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    (Original post by KingCobrain)
    This was for awhile, then I slept with two other girls and told her. After that on her birthday party that I didn't go to she slept with a one of her friends she used to deal with. But when I get onto her about it she says he has a girlfriend anyway.

    The context is I was just casually sleeping with her, I slept with her 3 days before she betrayed me. And she kept on asking what were we etc. I specifically told her not to sleep with anyone else. A week before I saw something on her snap and was suspicious and she seemed generally upset that I didn't believe her at the time.

    On the night of the event she was drunk and thought I didn't care about her. Apparently. I said happy birthday the next day and she acted surprised. I was testing her to see if she's the kind of girl I could build something with. My friends said to just keep having sex with her and stop catching feelings because I'll probably want to after if I stop it.

    But as my feelings develope the betrayal only seems worse to me. When should I do.

    Like yeah she's been loyal since but this is only because I learnt to exaggerate my feelings.

    And guys she wants a relationship though. I was the hesitant one.
    You're a terrible person.
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    (Original post by yudothis)
    You're a terrible person.
    Why I don't understand
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    (Original post by KingCobrain)
    Why, so what you're saying is I can't make her my girl because of the disrespect?
    I’m saying you’re a genetic mistake which in all honesty is a shame as you’re taking up space on this planet that could be better utilised by almost anybody else
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    Bye.
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    (Original post by More_Life)
    I’m saying you’re a genetic mistake which in all honesty is a shame as you’re taking up space on this planet that could be better utilised by almost anybody else
    Lol nerd
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    I give up I asked the wrong place, someone delete this. They're missing the point
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    (Original post by VirgoStrain)
    No they’re not. You asked in the right place, and you didn’t like the responses. You want a girl to abide by your rules and not sleep with anyone else while giving yourself permission to be as promiscuous as you want. You treat this person like an object, and I hope she has enough sense to get away from you.
    Nah I'll commit too
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    (Original post by KingCobrain)
    I give up I asked the wrong place, someone delete this. They're missing the point
    No ones missed the point.
    You have casual sex with a girl. You have no commitment and no relationship
    You sleep with other girls
    She slept with other boys
    You’ve told her she cannot do that. That you will continue to sleep around but you “forbid” her from doing the same
    You want someone you are not in a relationship to be faithful to you
    Grow up
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    (Original post by KingCobrain)
    Lol nerd
    Obviously I’m more intelligent than you, there a single-celled organisms that could also make this claim. Still finding it difficult to believe you even exist. I hope you’ve volunteered to donate your body to medical science, it’s the very least you could f*cking do. Maybe they can prevent you happening again to some other disappointed parents
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    (Original post by Sammylou40)
    No ones missed the point.
    You have casual sex with a girl. You have no commitment and no relationship
    You sleep with other girls
    She slept with other boys
    You’ve told her she cannot do that. That you will continue to sleep around but you “forbid” her from doing the same
    You want someone you are not in a relationship to be faithful to you
    Grow up
    No is it worth starting a relationship with someone who's already betrayed you. I asked in the wrong place though. I would never have a relationship with a girl who's had one night stands. Which is something condoned in 'the student room'
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    (Original post by KingCobrain)
    No is it worth starting a relationship with someone who's already betrayed you. I asked in the wrong place though. I would never have a relationship with a girl who's had one night stands. Which is something condoned in 'the student room'
    She hasn’t betrayed you at all. You have no relationship!!
    You want to behave like a slut and be with a virgin
    Your double standards will ensure you are single for a very long time
    And a relationship won’t lsst long either when they see how controlling you have the potential to be if they’ve any sense
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    (Original post by Sammylou40)
    She hasn’t betrayed you at all. You have no relationship!!
    You want to behave like a slut and be with a virgin
    Your double standards will ensure you are single for a very long time
    And a relationship won’t lsst long either when they see how controlling you have the potential to be if they’ve any sense
    Controlling how? That's my point I'm not going to force a girl not to be a hoe, she should know better.
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    (Original post by KingCobrain)
    No is it worth starting a relationship with someone who's already betrayed you. I asked in the wrong place though. I would never have a relationship with a girl who's had one night stands. Which is something condoned in 'the student room'
    You have NO commitment to this girl therefore she HAS NOT betrayed you. She DOES NOT have to be loyal to you. You CANNOT expect her to be faithful to you when she is NOT in a relationship with you. Do you understand?
 
 
 
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