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    My boyfriend of a year and half cheated on me ,I found out he kissed a girl however he got her number three months ago. I've hit him before and we got into a huge incident which we resolved after 5 days of splitting up. He was normal the same guy I knew but then 2 weeks after that he kissed and took the girl out one day before he saw me.

    The day after he saw her I saw him and I saw text messages of someone saying here and he lied and said it's his friend. I believed him and days later I called her and told him it's a girl he lied and said it was on of his girl friends. I called her again and said what happened she told me everything.

    Did I deserve to be cheated on? I think about it everyday it's only been 2 days ! I broke up with him. We was so in love of what I thought ! He still denied it when I said I spoke to her. I've never met someone I had a connection with but him I fell so in love. I feel like such ****.

    Did I deserve it because I've hit him? My friends said no he should of broke up with you and not been spiteful and told you a bunch of lies of how he wanted it to work and ect......
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    You're an abusive person, of course you deserved it. I have no sympathy for you. As soon as I read that you hit him, I felt glad he made you feel this way. I cannot sympathise with abusive people.
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    If you love someone you don't hit them!
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    (Original post by DrawTheLine)
    You're an abusive person, of course you deserved it. I have no sympathy for you. As soon as I read that you hit him, I felt glad he made you feel this way. I cannot sympathise with abusive people.
    I'm so sorry people do things wrong and I stopped ! He manipulated me to think we're going to be good and get over it he could of left me he did for about a week and I allowed him I knew it was wrong and I left it why did he come back to me?
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    This is how karma works
    You hit him
    He breaks up with you

    INSTANT KARMA *****
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    (Original post by Jigsaws mum)
    This is how karma works
    You hit him
    He breaks up with you

    INSTANT KARMA *****
    He didn't break up with me he broke up with me I said I agree I'm sorry. He came back and then made it seem like everything was fine and that he wanted to work things out then cheated on me
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    Well hitting him was a bad thing to do but this can't be the only factor. I would advise to move on, you both did wrong so you're even.
 
 
 
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