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    Hey long story short I'm talking to a girl that's been around let's just say. she's told me she's just looking for fun and she likes sex and has many f*** buddies and asked whether i would like to be another one of hers, I personally don't mind as it's just fun but I do worry about all the STDs that condoms don't protect you from such as herpes, genital warts and others...

    She's confessed she'd been with a lot of men and that she's still sleeping around with a lot of people - she wanted to be open from the start so I don't get attached which is fair enough and I respect girls that are open about this stuff but I do worry about STDs.

    Anyways I don't want to ruin this opportunity of no strings attached sex by offending her asking if she has an std, my flatmates said not to bother saying anything as they think itll just ruin everything but i want to be safe.

    How can i ask her if she's clean and has been recently tested?
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    Just say you take every girl to the clinic for your first date. Both of you get tested.
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    (Original post by harry218)
    Hey long story short I'm talking to a girl that's been around let's just say. she's told me she's just looking for fun and she likes sex and has many f*** buddies and asked whether i would like to be another one of hers, I personally don't mind as it's just fun but I do worry about all the STDs that condoms don't protect you from such as herpes, genital warts and others...

    She's confessed she'd been with a lot of men and that she's still sleeping around with a lot of people - she wanted to be open from the start so I don't get attached which is fair enough and I respect girls that are open about this stuff but I do worry about STDs.

    Anyways I don't want to ruin this opportunity of no strings attached sex by offending her asking if she has an std, my flatmates said not to bother saying anything as they think itll just ruin everything but i want to be safe.

    How can i ask her if she's clean and has been recently tested?
    I’m not anti sleeping around but I am anti sleeping with multiple people at the same time.

    Let’s say she’s sleeping with three guys, who are they sleeping with? Who might you be sleeping with? As they are all sleeping with her. Even if she passes a test now who’s to say she would in a month?
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    Use the other hole lol & also wear a condom.
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    Maybe you should get tested and offer up the information first and then ask her, so you don't seem like you're accusing her but rather trying to be safe.
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    it is not worth risking a life of health problems for a quick knee-trembler. get yourself tested & suggest she does likewise.
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    Ask her straight up! It's best to be safe than sorry, and if she's seeing more than one person then I'm sure she's aware of the dangers.

    Communication is key.
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    Don't ask go hard or go home
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    Of course you should ask lmao. You gotta put your health before her feelings.
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    just ask, 'oy, love, got any STD's by any chance?'
 
 
 
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