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    So there's this girl that I'm starting to reeeeaaally like (btw im a girl too) but the thing is shes only in it for the sex and i enjoy it but like i feel like im setting myself up for disappointment. Shes clearly stated she would never be in a relationship with a girl but i cant help but like her a little more every time we meet.

    We get along well and she wants us to like hang out more. But its obvious if you like someone and they dont like you back then you gotta start distancing so how do i do that without seeming suspicious or rude?
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    Oh no. She only wants sex That's so terrible bro
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    Stop starting ANY conversations with her yourself, esp on social media and phone. However, do reply to her messages on snap/insta/messages.
    Slowly, take longer and longer to respond, and slowly phase her out. She will get the message sooner or later anyway, and back out.
    Worst case scenario she confronts you, and you deny everything and just tell them you are stressed. But like you said, she doesn't actually like you much, so I doubt she will go to such lengths.
    This is how someone like me would deal with this situation I've because never been in a relationship and probably scared to hurt anyone.

    A smart (debatable), sincere and honest person would tell her that you like her, and realise that she isn't a lesbian and therefore would like to end the relationship and get over her. I believe she will respect your wishes (no matter how much you think she won't(that's something I would foolishly think)) and who knows, your feelings might be mutual and bam- jackpot- or not, in which case you can walk away or maybe find some sort of compromise (basis of every successful relationship ever) and leave/stay a happy person with 0 guilt attached.
 
 
 
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