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    So last night I was off my trolley, coming back from Sports night. It was about 12.15 am and I had run out of money - so I was walking down Oxford Street back to the station and one of the shops must have been having late night training or something - (Pandora) and all the staff spill out. This man and woman, probably in their early 30s are walking in front of me.

    I'm behind them, trying not to chunder - and they end up on the same platform as me on the Victoria Line. They start of talking about work and stuff - then they share that look -the one you have just before you make out with someone. Then they move their heads together - and at the last microsecond, she moves her head to the side so it's resting on his shoulder. Man looked like he'd bitten a turd -and I nearly vommed a healthy concoction of spirits and mixers in sympathy for him.

    Got to Euston - and they were at it again - more meaningful stares into one anothers eyes - then she does it again (dodging getting with him). And once more at Kings X. She's telling him how he means the world to her and "she so wants this work, but..."

    If he hadn't got off at the next stop, I think I would have had to intervene.

    Because actually - she wasn't exactly Helen of Troy. She was an aging retail worker - and so was he. Neither of them going to do much better - and they clearly had some kind of affection - so why the hell not just get it on? If it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out -but at midnight on Wednesday, she's playing games with him (and I think to an extent herself). Had I had marginally less sambuca I might have been in a state to point this out and I really wonder what happened to him.

    Really, it was so cruel. If you're going to give someone the brush off, that's fine. If you're going to tell them you just wanna be friends - that's fine too. But in the name of Almighty God, St Michael and St George - don't make like you're going to mack him three times in five minutes and then say how you're actually not. I was looking at how sad he was when he got off - dude's not 16 any more he really must have felt at such a low. She just sat down and started playing on her phone.

    Wednesday night sermon: If you're at your level and there's someone you like if only relatively casually - just stop playing games and try and make one another happy. That dream man / woman isn't coming. Love the one you're with.
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    Lmao thats soo savage. That guy is prolly her sideman, back up plan. Maybe she is confused? Maybe she is manipulative. Idk. Personally I wouldn’t deal with that crap and find someone else. But if he is infatuated by her, his judgement has probably gone to **** and it will take quite the will power and perspective to realise the pitfall and move on.
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    "Love the one your with" nah just because you're a little older doesnt mean that you should settle for someone you're not into and he deserves better to be with someone that is actually into him.
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    (Original post by MADMANMALIK)
    Lmao thats soo savage. That guy is prolly her sideman, back up plan. Maybe she is confused? Maybe she is manipulative. Idk. Personally I wouldn’t deal with that crap and find someone else. But if he is infatuated by her, his judgement has probably gone to **** and it will take quite the will power and perspective to realise the pitfall and move on.
    Ngl, they were both 4/10s and sliding. They clearly had something for one another - and I really don't see her having anything else on the go.

    He's going to be really sad and crying into his porn all night, while she's going to be watching Love Actually on Netflix and grumbling about how she can't find a decent man. If she had just gotten over herself and made out with him - they would probably both be happy right now, and I wouldn't have been annoyed all the way home.
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    (Original post by Trinculo)
    Ngl, they were both 4/10s and sliding. They clearly had something for one another - and I really don't see her having anything else on the go.

    He's going to be really sad and crying into his porn all night, while she's going to be watching Love Actually on Netflix and grumbling about how she can't find a decent man. If she had just gotten over herself and made out with him - they would probably both be happy right now, and I wouldn't have been annoyed all the way home.
    I would laugh if he made a thread about it on here though :lol:

    Poor guy though.
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    (Original post by bluemadhatter)
    "Love the one your with" nah just because you're a little older doesnt mean that you should settle for someone you're not into and he deserves better to be with someone that is actually into him.
    That's probably easy to say until you're a 32 year old dude working the late night shift at a shop on Oxford Street, and you don't even know what the Tinder brrp-bring match noise sounds like.
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    (Original post by Trinculo)
    Ngl, they were both 4/10s and sliding. They clearly had something for one another - and I really don't see her having anything else on the go.

    He's going to be really sad and crying into his porn all night, while she's going to be watching Love Actually on Netflix and grumbling about how she can't find a decent man. If she had just gotten over herself and made out with him - they would probably both be happy right now, and I wouldn't have been annoyed all the way home.
    😂😂😂😂 You have really thought this true. And yeahh I understand; her pride is gonna be the root of her regrets. RIP. Really is a shame seeing people make mistakes due to pride and tunnel vision.
    0:49-1:05 basically is the perfect response to a woman like that though.
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    (Original post by Trinculo)
    That's probably easy to say until you're a 32 year old dude working the late night shift at a shop on Oxford Street, and you don't even know what the Tinder brrp-bring match noise sounds like.
    Lmaooo dunno about you but i rather be 32 and single than 32 in a relationship with someone who doesnt even like me. He might find the one at 33 or 34, someone who lights up his whole life and is in love with him.
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    (Original post by bluemadhatter)
    Lmaooo dunno about you but i rather be 32 and single than 32 in a relationship with someone who doesnt even like me. He might find the one at 33 or 34, someone who lights up his whole life and is in love with him.
    What annoyed me so much was that he might be in the last chance saloon. There's a lot of lonely people out there - and he looked so miserable when he really didn't need to be.
 
 
 
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