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    I mean I've never had a romantic relationship, I've had 2 crushes over the last 5 years, I'm not ugly but not gorgeous either, I'm friends with guys but honestly am I really missing out on anything? I've seen friends have worthless relationships which are over in 2 weeks and it just makes me even more adverse

    However, there is a small part of me which is just scared, am I ever going to have a relationship? Am I supposed to be liking lots of people and wanting things? Everyone else does
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    You know, there is nothing wrong with having not been in a relationship. It is a lot more common than people think, there is no rush and you should never get with somebody or do something just cause others are or you think that you have to, just let what happens happen. If you find yourself attracted to a guy or find yourself in a situation where you are going further and you like it, then role with it. But don’t force yourself to be in those situations if that isn’t what you want.

    You have a whole life to do things and experience, as I said in a previous post, university is a great time to do all those things 😊 For now, focus on what you want and do what you want. I can’t say you are missing nothing, because relationships are awesome, but at the same time you are also missing the hard parts of relationships too, because they are not all cute and happy and smiles and love.

    Just do what you think is right for you, and if anybody tries to ever force you into doing something or makes you feel *****y for not doing something, cut them xD xD

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    (Original post by Avaia)
    You know, there is nothing wrong with having not been in a relationship. It is a lot more common than people think, there is no rush and you should never get with somebody or do something just cause others are or you think that you have to, just let what happens happen. If you find yourself attracted to a guy or find yourself in a situation where you are going further and you like it, then role with it. But don’t force yourself to be in those situations if that isn’t what you want.

    You have a whole life to do things and experience, as I said in a previous post, university is a great time to do all those things 😊 For now, focus on what you want and do what you want. I can’t say you are missing nothing, because relationships are awesome, but at the same time you are also missing the hard parts of relationships too, because they are not all cute and happy and smiles and love.

    Just do what you think is right for you, and if anybody tries to ever force you into doing something or makes you feel *****y for not doing something, cut them xD xD

    - Edit, Avi does not condone violence and Avi shall hold no liability for any actions taken by any individual-
    I totally agree with the poster above me, live life and go with the flow! No rush
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I mean I've never had a romantic relationship, I've had 2 crushes over the last 5 years, I'm not ugly but not gorgeous either, I'm friends with guys but honestly am I really missing out on anything? I've seen friends have worthless relationships which are over in 2 weeks and it just makes me even more adverse

    However, there is a small part of me which is just scared, am I ever going to have a relationship? Am I supposed to be liking lots of people and wanting things? Everyone else does
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    It makes you even more precious and special than the rest of the people , you don’t need to rush anything. Take your time and find the ONE because it’s not the end of the world.
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