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    (Original post by barnetlad)
    No because she could find someone who respects her chosen profession and realises that a doctor has standards. The OPs response is infantile, in my view.
    Of course she could find someone better! That's why he's insecure!
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    She needs to find herself a new boyfriend.
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    (Original post by oldboy2007)
    You can't because you're not good looking enough. The OP clearly said she was good looking and was worth more than he was. And yes, if a rich man made you an indecent proposal, you'd say yes.
    That's funny, I don't remember posting a photo of myself on this thread. I don't really look like the speech bubbles y'know?
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    Stop giving this parasite the attention
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My girlfriend is a doctor, currently 2nd year qualified and is doing a rotation as a GP, the rotations last 4 months and she's got one more left.
    I love that she's a doctor. But in her place as a GP she keeps getting guys coming in with penis problems, and it makes a little uncomfortable that she keeps seeing other people's penises, I know it's not her choice and it's her job so she takes no pleasure in it but it's still unnerving.
    What happens if I a guy comes in hung like a horse and now she's thinking she could upgrade to some thinglike that herself? Not so much that as usually people have an issue when they come in so it's usually grim, but it's still just strange to think she's been looking at penises during the day. Is it bad/unusual of me to be uncomfortable?
    YES TSR PEOPLE, TELL OP HE'S INSECURE AND OFFER NO HELP

    I wouldn't worry about your concerns; most women don't care about penis size so long that it's average or above ( You likely fall into that region).

    If it was me, I'd just be a bit grossed out. If a girl was solely focused on a guy with a big **** she'd go to a strip club and forge a relationship there.

    Evidentially, as far as I'm aware, most relationships don't start at the strip club.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    oh oh man she would be definitely taking the big ones very deeepp!!!!!! and you wouldn't know how many.
    You do realise Mods can see you under anonymous 😂
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My girlfriend is a doctor, currently 2nd year qualified and is doing a rotation as a GP, the rotations last 4 months and she's got one more left.
    I love that she's a doctor. But in her place as a GP she keeps getting guys coming in with penis problems, and it makes a little uncomfortable that she keeps seeing other people's penises, I know it's not her choice and it's her job so she takes no pleasure in it but it's still unnerving.
    What happens if I a guy comes in hung like a horse and now she's thinking she could upgrade to some thinglike that herself? Not so much that as usually people have an issue when they come in so it's usually grim, but it's still just strange to think she's been looking at penises during the day. Is it bad/unusual of me to be uncomfortable?
    Once I had to go in for a health check for the penis.

    Was in the waiting room expecting that the doctor could be man or woman. I felt if it turns out being a woman, I would not be bothered and would just get on with it.

    The next thing I see is that the doctor coming in was an Asian girl, less than 25 and strikingly HOT. What I was expecting was that, even if it was a woman, it would be some middle-aged, not so attractive female doctor.

    But no, they decided to give me a young Page 3, pornstar-looking, I-would-love-to-tear-it-up, exotic female doctor.

    I was like "God, I am ****ed". She could see it on my face as I looked at her when she entered and she controlled herself for smirking or laughing. She even asked if I wanted a third party in the room, I said "No".

    Throughout her whole examination, with this hot girl holding and checking my penis, I was just begging and praying to Jesus, Mohammed, Buddha and all other Gods and messengers that "Please DON'T let it rise! Calm it down for me! I promise to worship you if you help me on this occassion". I started thinking of many blokes just to control it.
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    (Original post by DrawTheLine)
    That's funny, I don't remember posting a photo of myself on this thread. I don't really look like the speech bubbles y'know?
    I don't care, if you were good looking enough to get a rich guy, you would have done so already.
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    If it helps, i'm a final year medical student and have already seen more of them than i would have expected. People come in to see you in a professional setting, with a problem. In that setting I know it's a professional encounter and i've never even thought it in a sexual way. I've also never examined a partner the way I would a patient, as that's a totally different relationship. I turn my professional life off at home and i turn my personal life off with patients. I promise you she's not comparing you to anyone. Plus, she's likely really busy at work and focused on what she's doing. I don't mean any offence, but she probably only thinks about you on her breaks when she has the chance.

    Oddly, its usually the patients who come in and feel embarrassed, but in the same way that we would reassure them by saying it's a totally normal and professional encounter, that should help reassure you. Patients are told that you see all shapes and sizes and there's nothing to worry about, and i hope you see that its actually the same for us. It's literally just another examination, the way it would be if we were examining a sore ankle.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    In that setting I know it's a professional encounter and i've never even thought it in a sexual way. I've also never examined a partner the way I would a patient, as that's a totally different relationship.
    This. Unless people have experience of working in a healthcare setting, they seem to find it hard to comprehend that you can look at someone's genitals and not muster some sort of emotional response. While I care about the wellbeing of the person who the genitals belong to, I'm only looking at them as a bit of anatomy. It's a similar process to that by which you learn to look at a compound fracture, or a gangrenous foot, or a variety of bodily fluids, without responding emotionally.

    Either way, the OP doesn't sound particularly plausible; unless he's much younger than her, and/or very naive, I can't understand this being more than a fleeting worry for anyone.
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    I'd just learn to deal with it and trust her.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I should clarify I was cheated on in my last relationship, so I'm a little wary anyway.
    She's really good looking, so I already know I'm punching with someone who's attractive and has a good job.

    I know they're generally gonna be minging penises that come in but she's still looking at them.
    So, why be so paranoid and negative about it?

    Use it to fuel your fantasies, get her to tell you what she thinks of them etc.
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    You are worried because she sees other guy's nobs? If they are going there to get their nob checked, I doubt said nob is very appealing.
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    (Original post by GradeA*UnderA)
    You do realise Mods can see you under anonymous 😂
    Lol i was unaware of that and I was reported and got a warning. I just made that up because I can obviously sense that this post is FAKE.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I know she's not gonna jump in with one of them. I'm more just uncomfortable that she's seeing penises all the time.
    she's a GP. She sees people with chronic conditions or children with fever.
    Even if men come to the GP with a penis issue they tend to go to a male GP. And even then, most young men would go straight to GUM clinic and not a GP.
    You sound ridiculous
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    Jeez this is a lot of rep
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    Become a gynecologist to balance things out.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My girlfriend is a doctor, currently 2nd year qualified and is doing a rotation as a GP, the rotations last 4 months and she's got one more left.
    I love that she's a doctor. But in her place as a GP she keeps getting guys coming in with penis problems, and it makes a little uncomfortable that she keeps seeing other people's penises, I know it's not her choice and it's her job so she takes no pleasure in it but it's still unnerving.
    What happens if I a guy comes in hung like a horse and now she's thinking she could upgrade to some thinglike that herself? Not so much that as usually people have an issue when they come in so it's usually grim, but it's still just strange to think she's been looking at penises during the day. Is it bad/unusual of me to be uncomfortable?
    Medics are professional people.

    Stop worrying...
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    think about the patients and how your gf is helping them...not their penises lol, just another organ
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    Doctors see everything, including ears.
 
 
 
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