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One night stand with flatmate Watch

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    As the title says.

    I've come out of a long term relationship recently, and was having a heart to heart for hours with my flatmate. Long story short we started kissing and the next thing we're having sex.

    We're both a bit all over the place because of it. We're not sure what it means and what happens next.

    Any advice?
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    well, do you think it meant anything? Do you like them? are you attracted to them?

    It may not mean anything, it may mean something. You 2 are really the only ones who can know that. As for what you do next, it isn't like you can just avoid them or just pretend it didn't happen, so just role with it :/ It is gonna be pretty awkward, but it doesn't have to be super awkward if you don't let it, talk to them about it and just be open. That way you can both come to an understanding and move forward from it
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    God this sounds like a movie.

    Sorry, not helpful. Don't try and act like nothing happened, just do simple acts that remind them you didn't forget.

    Or you could justflat out confront them and say, what next?
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    stage 1= kissing
    stage 2 = sex
    Stage 3 = Threesome
    Stage 4 =orgy

    INTIATE STAGE 3
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    (Original post by Jigsaws mum)
    stage 1= kissing
    stage 2 = sex
    Stage 3 = Threesome
    Stage 4 =orgy

    INTIATE STAGE 3
    I like this idea!
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    Rule one of uni: never sleep with anyone you live with
 
 
 
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