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    OK SO BASCIALLY, I have had the biggest crush on this guy in my college literally since the first day of year 12 & now I'm in year 13. We see each other sometimes at college and smile but we don't know each other as we have no same classes or mutual friends. BUT I ADDED HIM ON FACEBOOK LAST YEAR SO SHOULD I MESSAGE HIM AND SAY HEY OR SOMETHING PLEASE HELP ME I CANNOT FLIRT TO SAVE MY DAMN LIFE TYSM.

    WOULD IT BE WEIRD FROM A GUYS POINT OF VIEW IF I MESSAGED HIM?? IM VERY PARANOID ABOUT THIS

    UPDATE: I GOT REJECTED AF YALL
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    (Original post by rosel100)
    OK SO BASCIALLY, I have had the biggest crush on this guy in my college literally since the first day of year 12 & now I'm in year 13. We see each other sometimes at college and smile but we don't know each other as we have no same classes or mutual friends. BUT I ADDED HIM ON FACEBOOK LAST YEAR SO SHOULD I MESSAGE HIM AND SAY HEY OR SOMETHING PLEASE HELP ME I CANNOT FLIRT TO SAVE MY DAMN LIFE TYSM.

    WOULD IT BE WEIRD FROM A GUYS POINT OF VIEW IF I MESSAGED HIM?? IM VERY PARANOID ABOUT THIS
    Go for it. :yep:
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    How popular is he with girls and do you think he has a girlfriend?
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    (Original post by black1blade)
    How popular is he with girls and do you think he has a girlfriend?
    IM 100% sure he's not got a girl and he's not popular with the girls
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    Don't do it.
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    (Original post by jjjjjaaaames)
    don't do it.

    why whats the reasoning
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    Do it, yolo
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    DO IT! You will regret it if you don't, just take the leap of faith and see where it takes you
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    Ok i think imma do it but what do i say after we both say 'hey' omg
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    (Original post by rosel100)
    IM 100% sure he's not got a girl and he's not popular with the girls
    If you start talking him in a friendly way he will almost 100% fall in love with you over time lol (as long as you are reasonably attractive). I mean don't expect him to actually do anything about it, probs be too nervous.
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    maybe get to know each other a bit first so you dont get instantly rejected
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    (Original post by rosel100)
    why whats the reasoning
    You're in year 13, it's your last year of sixth form/ college, both of you will probably go to different uni's, if you do go. And long distance relationships don't usually last long.

    + focus on your subjects.
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    do it
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    (Original post by rosel100)
    OK SO BASCIALLY, I have had the biggest crush on this guy in my college literally since the first day of year 12 & now I'm in year 13. We see each other sometimes at college and smile but we don't know each other as we have no same classes or mutual friends. BUT I ADDED HIM ON FACEBOOK LAST YEAR SO SHOULD I MESSAGE HIM AND SAY HEY OR SOMETHING PLEASE HELP ME I CANNOT FLIRT TO SAVE MY DAMN LIFE TYSM.

    WOULD IT BE WEIRD FROM A GUYS POINT OF VIEW IF I MESSAGED HIM?? IM VERY PARANOID ABOUT THIS
    Well, what do you have to lose?

    In the past I've had a bunch of people I barely know contact me on Facebook and start up a conversation as if they'd known me all their lives. It's kind of flattering, not to mention amusing. It's nice to have a conversation with someone.

    If you don't act awkward, it shouldn't be awkward. Maybe think of some things you want to say to him or ask him. When I want to talk to someone, I go in with a question or something. For instance, my current crush is someone I'm friends with but not that close with, so I tend to message her saying "hey are you going to x (shared activity) this weekend?" or "heard you were feeling ill, hope you're feeling better" or something else. Then use that as a conversation opener.

    Maybe just say you didn't really talk last year but you keep seeing each other around and it's like, "maybe we should actually have a conversation". That's probably the way I'd approach it.

    But then again, I am the girl who asked out someone she'd met literally once in real life, and did that over Facebook, so take my advice with a grain of salt.
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    (Original post by JJJJJAAAAMES)
    You're in year 13, it's your last year of sixth form/ college, both of you will probably go to different uni's, if you do go. And long distance relationships don't usually last long.

    + focus on your subjects.
    DAMN thats actually true://
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    Do it! It’s your final year, go for it! It’s fine to make the first move, what do you have to lose compared to what you have to gain.
    (Original post by rosel100)
    DAMN thats actually true://
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    (Original post by rosel100)
    OK SO BASCIALLY, I have had the biggest crush on this guy in my college literally since the first day of year 12 & now I'm in year 13. We see each other sometimes at college and smile but we don't know each other as we have no same classes or mutual friends. BUT I ADDED HIM ON FACEBOOK LAST YEAR SO SHOULD I MESSAGE HIM AND SAY HEY OR SOMETHING PLEASE HELP ME I CANNOT FLIRT TO SAVE MY DAMN LIFE TYSM.

    WOULD IT BE WEIRD FROM A GUYS POINT OF VIEW IF I MESSAGED HIM?? IM VERY PARANOID ABOUT THIS
    It's definitely not weird! Even if it doesn't work it's better still to try then live with regret all your life and it doesn't mean anything bad about you as a person. Good luck!
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    (Original post by rosel100)
    OK SO BASCIALLY, I have had the biggest crush on this guy in my college literally since the first day of year 12 & now I'm in year 13. We see each other sometimes at college and smile but we don't know each other as we have no same classes or mutual friends. BUT I ADDED HIM ON FACEBOOK LAST YEAR SO SHOULD I MESSAGE HIM AND SAY HEY OR SOMETHING PLEASE HELP ME I CANNOT FLIRT TO SAVE MY DAMN LIFE TYSM.

    WOULD IT BE WEIRD FROM A GUYS POINT OF VIEW IF I MESSAGED HIM?? IM VERY PARANOID ABOUT THIS
    Nah, it's not weird at all to message him! If he's single then go for it! Just have that confidence to do so!
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    Life is 2 short for worrying. DO WHAT MUST BE DONE! Regret later, act now!!
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    Just do it! Think about the amount of time you've spent liking him.You'll just waste more time.
 
 
 
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