Apologies if this sounds petty
Im in uni 3rd yr living in halls and have been lonely for 3 yrs i have a long term bf of 5 yrs but iv had problems with him for lomg time and we barely see each other
I have a stupid crush on ond of my flatmates who also has a long term gf..
Trouble is some of the stuff he said to me has really upset me such as:
I only hang out with ppl i want to hang with
He keeps hanging with one girl coursemates of he keeps me mentioning every day to me ..that she's cool edgy and has same interests and everything with him...
He says hes enjoying the company of his coursemates so much and that theyre his friends
Its like rubbing salt on my wounds that he sees me nothing as an accquaintance who he will nevee actually hang out with
Yet i have to see hin everyday whilst going through depression and still be polite to him whilst trying to get over him
How do i deal with this ??
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Advice needed :( watch
- 21-10-2017 02:24
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- 21-10-2017 10:04
He has a gf and you have a bf. I suggest you just keep things platonic and not act differently around him. He probably doesn't want to give you the wrong impression by hanging out with him. I know he's your flatmate but you could meet with other flatmates?
- 21-10-2017 11:02
[QUOTE=UWS;74203196]He has a gf and you have a bf. I suggest you just keep things platonic and not act differently around him. He probably doesn't want to give you the wrong impression by hanging out with him. I know he's your flatmate but you could meet with other flatmates?[/QUOT
But he hangs out a lot with his girl coursemate hes constantly telling me how shes cool edgy has same interests as him shes just like him
It just gets ne down
He doesnt want to hang with me not cos he doesnt want to give the wrong impression
Its cos he couldn't care to
Its sad cos i have to see him everyday just rejoicing about love for other ppl
- 21-10-2017 11:06
Also he tells me he hates most girls cos theyre dumb apart from his gf and this girl he hangs with... he did say a while back im not dumb
But when sometimes he repeats about girls being really dumb. He only says oh apart from my gf amd this other girl
Does that mean he thinks im stupid
I know his opinion should mean **** all