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    Basically in the group chat they are all planning to go out together for some Halloween club party thing and I just don't want to go and I feel so uncomfortable being the only one not going!

    I don't drink, and I hate clubbing etc. I much much prefer staying in the comfort of my own home - yes I'm a bore! I hate going out to social things - I never ever do it.

    And please don't recommend that I go out with them. Because that's simply not me, I just don't like that stuff.

    Will my friends think any less of me? Will they distance themselves away from me etc? We've all known each other for like a month so far since we just started uni.
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    Just let them know you don't really like that sort of stuff, if they are real friends then I can't see them thinking less of you Some people just don't like the whole clubbing and partying thing, just be open with them is all
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    If they're your friends they'll understand and respect your personality and value system.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Basically in the group chat they are all planning to go out together for some Halloween club party thing and I just don't want to go and I feel so uncomfortable being the only one not going!

    I don't drink, and I hate clubbing etc. I much much prefer staying in the comfort of my own home - yes I'm a bore! I hate going out to social things - I never ever do it.

    And please don't recommend that I go out with them. Because that's simply not me, I just don't like that stuff.

    Will my friends think any less of me? Will they distance themselves away from me etc? We've all known each other for like a month so far since we just started uni.
    If they are your friends just tell them the truth-tell them some of the points you mentioned on this thread. Also, if you do not want distance yourself from your friends, why not invite them to do stuff that you/all of you enjoy. Do not wait for the invitation create the invitation.
 
 
 
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