I want this girl

Please keep anonymous, thank you.

Well in my old school I liked this girl so badly, so badly, more than I've ever like any other girl. Anyways I was mentally ill for ages and I never spoke to her and I'm worried I acted weird around her and came across as weird. I really liked her and still do when I really think about it, the other day my friend asked her about me and apparently she thought I looked alright without being asked do you fancy him or anything. He thinks she likes me and that nearly put me into shock! I've never spoken to her. She has facebook but I don't want to come across as desperate. What should I do? What would you do? Should I add her on facebook?

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Reply 1

Ashes_to_Ashes

If you like her then yes!!! Life is too short to mess around :smile:

Just start talking to her and see how it goes.

Reply 2

Shakuri

Nothing will happen if you just sit back and do nothing!!!

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

But is it really worth it? I mean the likelihood is embarrassment not happiness.

Reply 4

shona

Anonymous

But is it really worth it? I mean the likelihood is embarrassment not happiness.

Don't you think the risk is worth it?

Reply 5

Bedshaped

When shes married you're gonna regret not going for it...

Reply 6

Dream1

Watch and learn from love actually, you gota spit it out.

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

so what would i say to her if i added her. what would be my first message?

Reply 8

Bedshaped

Anonymous

so what would i say to her if i added her. what would be my first message?

"Hi. Remember me? You got msn?"

Add her on msn. Chat her up, get her phone number.

Phone her up a few times, ask to meet up.

Meet up, KISS her first time.

You're in there bruv!

Reply 9

falls_whisper

Are you sure this isn't infatuation? How can you like someone this much without knowing them properly?

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

she's just beautiful, her face alone wooed me to her straight away.

Reply 11

falls_whisper

I'm sorry, I'm really dubious towards these kind of things. And I don't believe in love at first sight, so I'm really kind of skeptical.

Um... just talk to her. Do you even see her around nowadays? It'd be easier to strike up a conversation face to face.

Reply 12

QBC123

Listen: IF you want her, go for it! Dont be scared, if you make the effort then there is always a chance. Dont be restrictive, girls like guys who asre brave!

Reply 13

Anonymous #1

no, the last time I just saw her, was back in June/July.

Bedshaped, imagine you were on the end of the phone with some random stranger speaking to you, I doubt she'd like that rota.

Reply 14

Spudder

Don't be afraid to add her to Facebook or anything, does she know you had all these problems, especially concerning her? Chances are she just thought you were a little shy.

Reply 15

shona

First message doesn't have to say very much...

"Hey :-) Haven't spoken to you in a long time... What are you up to these days?"

Hopefully you'll be able to use something in her reply to strike up a conversation. Take it from there.

Reply 16

Anonymous #1

well i can't say that cas I've never spoken to her before.

and so therefore she doesn't know of my problems.

Reply 17

Cj-Tj

Girls are easy once you know them, just learning what to say and when. :wink:

So yeah, talk to her!!!! Find out about current relationship situation, preferably not by asking her straight out, then flirt like mad! Be cheerie, cheeky, happy. Dont look desperate, make yourself the prize not her. If shes cold for a while then dont give up so easily, she will start to show interest eventually. If she really isnt interested its no big deal to you, just move onto someone else and show her how little she really ment. When they see your not fussed they often start to like you........

Something friendly like "Hiya mate, how you doing- aint seen you in agesss, fancy a drink sometime? Take care xxx" would be fine for a first message methinks.