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(Original post by Mad Vlad)
Yeah it is crazy, I'm reading other peoples posts in here and thinking the same them too. I suppose theres some comfort in the thought that there are at least a few other genuine nice guys out there...
yeah you know what they say though - nice guys finish last
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(Original post by priya)
i'm the same (except i want a man lol) when i'm having a down day i seem to notice all the couples everywhere and my heart just sinks. lately i've been trying not to think about it too much, thinking, oh well uni is around the corner, who knows. but then i talk to a load of girl mates who have been in uni for a year and still haven't found anyone either.
It's even worse when my family reckons I should find my 'match' in Uni... The last thing I need is peer pressure. I see trying to forget my problems and losing myself in academics.

I hope not.

There's the chance that some people were meant to be alone throughout their entire lives, though surely they're destined to other things great? If there's any justice.
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(Original post by GSS)
Fair enough. Like I said I'll change my views and I'll acknowledge that clubing is to have fun, get to know new people, make friends, etc.
the only thing you have to acknowledge is that for SOME people, clubbing is fun and a good way to know people. if you're not comfortable with it don't feel forced into going out there and pulling lots of random girls if you're not happy with it.
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(Original post by majinbuu)
yeah you know what they say though - nice guys finish last
*Sigh* though thats a good thing in another context of the title of this thread... must be quite satisfying really to not disappoint your gf i suppose
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It's even worse when my family reckons I should find my 'match' in Uni... The last thing I need is peer pressure. I see trying to forget my problems and losing myself in academics.

I hope not.

There's the chance that some people were meant to be alone throughout their entire lives, though surely they're destined to other things great? If there's any justice.
urgh. it sounds scary but if that happened i could see myself doing a Blanche Dubois, just to feel like i wasn't lonely. horrifying thought and i hope it'll never come to that, but the chance is there
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You are having this problem because at least one of the following is true:
1) You don't watch (enough) pr0n
2) The girls you know are ugly
3) You are ugly
4) You are so fat you haven't seen your pen0x in months.
5) You are not eating well and need vitamin supplements
6) You can no longer get an erection and need viagra to get back the hunger
7) You hope to find the right girl one day - life is not a fairy tale story you cannot think like this.
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(Original post by priya)
urgh. it sounds scary but if that happened i could see myself doing a Blanche Dubois, just to feel like i wasn't lonely. horrifying thought and i hope it'll never come to that, but the chance is there
Had to read what you meant by Blanche Dubois

I'm sure that won't happen, and you shouldn't let it! If you believe you have worth, then, that's all you need to keep yourself going. Even if the world does it's best to collapse you refuse to fall.
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(Original post by TIMAAAAAAAAAAAY)
You are having this problem because at least one of the following is true:
1) You don't watch (enough) pr0n
2) The girls you know are ugly
3) You are ugly
4) You are so fat you haven't seen your pen0x in months.
5) You are not eating well and need vitamin supplements
6) You can no longer get an erection and need viagra to get back the hunger
7) You hope to find the right girl one day - life is not a fairy tale story you cannot think like this.
:rolleyes: Oh THANKS!
1) I don't like "pr0n" - horrible and unnecessary - i have an imagination for that.
2) No, a lot of the girls i know are quite hot... though i dont have a chance with them - also its not all about looks you know.
3) Arguably yes *cries*
4) No, I'm a nice weight for my height thankyou (11st/5'11")
5) I do eat fairly well
6) I am perfectly capable of getting an unaided erection
7) Yes i do, its my belief, live with it :mad:
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One thing that might make it worse is knowing that the girls you spend your time with, and if you had what it took would make a move, end up being taken by some other guy who has more courage (we won't go into what we might think of such guys..!). Inherent personal tragedy I guess :mad:! I'm sure it'll all unfold as it should.
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hey ppl,,, im back =oP
im the same, 18 and i got the "V" tattooed on my forehead
i dont reli want to lose it just yet,
i'm waitin till i meet someone who loves me and i love them
(sad i know but it's my life not urs =oD)

POLLJK
p.s. soz bout commin in so late in the thread)
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(Original post by LifeWired)
One thing that might make it worse is knowing that the girls you spend your time with, and if you had what it took would make a move, end up being taken by some other guy who has more courage (we won't go into what we might think of such guys..!). Inherent personal tragedy I guess :mad:! I'm sure it'll all unfold as it should.
Indeed... *sigh* brings back memories
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Indeed... *sigh* brings back memories
Some memories are there to forget, and these count. I'm leaving for Uni and there's a girl who's been a close friend of mine for some time. If I had known her for an extra year, I would always think about what could have been. I guess that's how life's worked out , even more tragic is we can both talk about it
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hey ppl,,, im back =oP
im the same, 18 and i got the "V" tattooed on my forehead
i dont reli want to lose it just yet,
i'm waitin till i meet someone who loves me and i love them
(sad i know but it's my life not urs =oD)

POLLJK
p.s. soz bout commin in so late in the thread)
Ive not got any particular plans to lose it at the moment. Like you, I'm also waiting for someone that truly loves and cares about me in the way that i love and care for them. Tis a bit fairy tale, but like you said, its my life and i'll do things my way :cool:
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Some memories are there to forget, and these count. I'm leaving for Uni and there's a girl who's been a close friend of mine for some time. If I had known her for an extra year, I would always think about what could have been. I guess that's how life's worked out , even more tragic is we can both talk about it
aww... dude, I met a girl through a friend and well... we both got on with each other really well and like we were talking about having a relationship together but we decided that it couldnt work at this point in time because we live hours from each other
Theres always some annoying factor that crops up isnt there, one just to spoil the magic of finding someone you really care about
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(Original post by Mad Vlad)
aww... dude, I met a girl through a friend and well... we both got on with each other really well and like we were talking about having a relationship together but we decided that it couldnt work at this point in time because we live hours from each other
Theres always some annoying factor that crops up isnt there, one just to spoil the magic of finding someone you really care about
Life will find us someone if there's any justice! :mad:

I've been too close, I can't let that feeling go. Yet, we've also got to move on and not think about this. It's a ironic and harsh world.

I have to get some sleep now though, is 1:45, cripes :eek:
At least we know we're not the only ones though
Night m8
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Life will find us someone if there's any justice! :mad:

I've been too close, I can't let that feeling go. Yet, we've also got to move on and not think about this. It's a ironic and harsh world.

I have to get some sleep now though, is 1:45, cripes :eek:
At least we know we're not the only ones though
Night m8
nighty night dude
no matter whats wrong with u, there is allways someone with the same prob =o)

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i still haven't really pictured guys losing interest, i really cant. perhaps all the guy friends around me do have perverts somewhere inside their name.

what exactly sparked the idea that pulling and sex was no longer an interest?
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Hehehe! Its me too!! lol! All you gotta do is be happy with yourself and not look for a relationship. Then because life is like that one will come along just to mess with ur mind!

I have just reached the point where i have given up on women. They are not worth the bother to be honest.
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Dude... we're a dying breed I'm exactly the same...
Sex doesn't seem important to me... I just want a girl that I love who loves me back. Like I've said before, I'd be content in a relationship if all we did was cuddle, talk and do fun stuff together. I don't really ask for much.
Thats lovely
I believe that you should really know and love someone before embarking in a sexual relationship with them- you need to build up to it to make it truly special....i think its ok to wait however long.....till marriage.....but rushing into it is just the worst thing to do. My boyfriend and I are so glad we waited becuase now the relationship does not revolve around sex- we are best friends too....

Ruthie xx
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Thats lovely
I believe that you should really know and love someone before embarking in a sexual relationship with them- you need to build up to it to make it truly special....i think its ok to wait however long.....till marriage.....but rushing into it is just the worst thing to do. My boyfriend and I are so glad we waited becuase now the relationship does not revolve around sex- we are best friends too....

Ruthie xx
Thanks...
Yeah i agree, to me sex is just the most intimate way of expressing your love for someone and therefore its right to wait and make sure that that person is the right person.
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