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    Anyone else a DUFF of their friendship group because I totally am and I hate it so much so feel free to share your experiences below, here's mine:

    Please don't start having a go at me I'm feeling pretty rough right now and I just need somewhere to rant about how I feel, I feel like no matter what happens I'll never be as good or even close to my friends. They've been in so many relationships and some of them have boys and girls all fighting over them and I have no one interested in me in the slightest unless its about my friends. I feel so rough right now I know you shouldn't let how other people feel/say towards you impact you but I'm in a situation where one of my friends is dating someone in a group and the remaining people in the group (boys and girls) are all in love with my other friend and I'm just on the sideline watching. I've been making a massive effort to try and get to know them personally but they just want to be with my friend and it just feels no one will ever feel anything towards me. I understand I'm not the best looking person in the world but it's so hard when you wish you were like your friends because their love lives are just amazing and your is non-existent. I guess that's the perks of being the DUFF of the friendship group
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    if ur 15 or under then their 'amazing' relationships will be nothing more than a cringey memory in a few years. If 18+ umm.... well **** man idk. btw i cant relate coz i am a sad loner with like 3 frendz who arent that cute.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    if ur 15 or under then their 'amazing' relationships will be nothing more than a cringey memory in a few years. If 18+ umm.... well **** man idk. btw i cant relate coz i am a sad loner with like 3 frendz who arent that cute.
    I'm 17 in a couple days also I'm sure you and your friends are cute
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    (Original post by applesandalevels)
    Anyone else a DUFF of their friendship group because I totally am and I hate it so much so feel free to share your experiences below, here's mine:

    Please don't start having a go at me I'm feeling pretty rough right now and I just need somewhere to rant about how I feel, I feel like no matter what happens I'll never be as good or even close to my friends. They've been in so many relationships and some of them have boys and girls all fighting over them and I have no one interested in me in the slightest unless its about my friends. I feel so rough right now I know you shouldn't let how other people feel/say towards you impact you but I'm in a situation where one of my friends is dating someone in a group and the remaining people in the group (boys and girls) are all in love with my other friend and I'm just on the sideline watching. I've been making a massive effort to try and get to know them personally but they just want to be with my friend and it just feels no one will ever feel anything towards me. I understand I'm not the best looking person in the world but it's so hard when you wish you were like your friends because their love lives are just amazing and your is non-existent. I guess that's the perks of being the DUFF of the friendship group
    Seriously why do you even care? You're still 17 and when you're in uni everyone will be running towards so don't over think it and just focus on your studies.
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    (Original post by GreenBell)
    Seriously why do you even care? You're still 17 and when you're in uni everyone will be running towards so don't over think it and just focus on
    your studies.
    Idk I’m just in a bad place right now and it’s just bothering me but you’re right
 
 
 
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