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    I met a guy during sixth form and we’re acquaintances right now but I want to take it further, to a relationship.

    Everytime I like a guy we always just end up being friends, even when it originally feels like there could be something there, what am I doing wrong?
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    you're probably doing what every other girl does and giving him cryptic "signs" and "signals" that he's somehow supposed to interpret as you liking him more than a friend. What you're doing wrong is waiting for him to ask you out.

    There's nothing wrong with a girl asking out a guy. So ask him. Or just sit around and feel sorry for yourself.
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    Be more direct. Just ask him if he wants to go for a coffee or something. Pretty much the universal hint towards liking someone more than friends and wanting to get to know them more.
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    Be more direct. Just ask him if he wants to go for a coffee or something. Pretty much the universal hint towards liking someone more than friends and wanting to get to know them more.
    I’m just worried I’ll seem too pushy i guess
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    I’m just worried I’ll seem too pushy i guess
    You have to take that risk if you want to improve your chances of meeting someone
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    I’m just worried I’ll seem too pushy i guess
    Ok then don't do anything and continue friendzoning yourself.
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    (Original post by VirgoStrain)
    Do people do that? I’m more into taking a walk on a natural landscape nearby (there’s one on a high altitude which overlooks the whole of central London - it looks amazing at night).
    As I said really, asking someone out for a "coffee or something" is universally pretty much a way of saying "I like you, I want to get to know you better and hopefully romance will develop". Asking someone out for a walk on a nearby natural landscape is a bit esoteric, really :lol:
 
 
 
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