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    so, I have been talking to this guy since the beginning of the year pretty much and Ive came to really like him. however, the only times we have been together are when he invites me to parties and is drunk. we have previously arranged to meet up normally but its never actually happened, but whenever we are together its like we are a couple: he gives me full attention and is so kind to me which just makes me like him more. Our 'relationship' hasn't moved any further than this despite us talking for so long and everyone is questioning what is happening, which makes me think what his real intentions are. If anyone could help me out or offer advice on what to do that would help me out a lot!
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    Well be blunt and push for something to happen if he isn't willing.

    Often girls are very difficult to read whether they think they are or they aren't. Perhaps he is busy in life at the moment and is unable to commit strongly to 'chasing' you. So why not try to schedule a 1on1 sober date sometime?

    After-all that's the best way to figure out his intentions. Especially when you tell him your own intentions.
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    so, I have been talking to this guy since the beginning of the year pretty much and Ive came to really like him. however, the only times we have been together are when he invites me to parties and is drunk. we have previously arranged to meet up normally but its never actually happened, but whenever we are together its like we are a couple: he gives me full attention and is so kind to me which just makes me like him more. Our 'relationship' hasn't moved any further than this despite us talking for so long and everyone is questioning what is happening, which makes me think what his real intentions are. If anyone could help me out or offer advice on what to do that would help me out a lot!
    If you like him then either a couple of meetup opportunities, see how he responds pr

    just ask him about it and say youd like to get to know him offline.

    If his response is he avoids or makes excuses, then its more or less certain he isnt interested and only wants to continue online.

    If thats not enough for you then you can wind it down and look elsewhere.
 
 
 
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