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    There's this guy who fancies me but he's not my type and I've told him so. However we are still friends. He keeps asking me to hang out with him ... I think that's Ok or should I make excuses not to?
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    If you have told him outright that it can only be friendship then it’s up to you if you want to do that
    Can you do things in a group rather than just two for a while?
    Don’t give him any mixed signals and you need to be firm but kind that’s it’s not going to happen
    After that there’s no reason you can’t have a good friendship.
    He’ll fall for someone else and move on romance wise but you could be left with a really good friend for life
    It’s up to you to decide if it’s worth it
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    There's this guy who fancies me but he's not my type and I've told him so. However we are still friends. He keeps asking me to hang out with him ... I think that's Ok or should I make excuses not to?
    If I were to bet money, then he still fancies you and is still interested in dating eventually. See how it goes and if you arent interested then drop him.
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    Ask him if it's okay to bring a friend with you, then see how he reacts to that. I would make it so that you don't give him the wrong impression when hanging out with him.
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    I forgot to mention when I was in a relationship, we did hand out just together, so there is precedence I suppose?
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    I forgot to mention when I was in a relationship, we did hang out just together, so there is precedence I suppose?
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    There's this guy who fancies me but he's not my type and I've told him so. However we are still friends. He keeps asking me to hang out with him ... I think that's Ok or should I make excuses not to?
    Crush him. It's the kinder thing to do in the medium to long term.
 
 
 
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