I am a lad who is now in final year of uni. A lot of my course are on placement year in industry. I was friends with a lot of people on my course and a lot of my friends on my course are in final year with me. But i have started to notice a change in them. At the beginning of final year they were very friendly with me, they used to call me and we used to hang out. and they used to be very excited to see me. now when i hang out with them its not the same, i feel as though i don't fit in with them and something doesnt feel right. If i say something, sometimes they laugh at me as i may have said something daft. also they don't call me as much anymore even if they see me.
- Im starting to think i am starting to annoy them, should i stay out their way for a few weeks, and try to avoid them so they don't get tired of seeing my face?
- what else could be potentially going wrong?
- what shall i do?
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- Thread Starter
- 23-10-2017 12:46
- 25-10-2017 17:36
Hi, it's common for people to change unfortunately, it might be that you've changed and so you feel like you don't fit in with that group anymore, and that's okay! Are you calling them and inviting them places too? It's easy for you to let the other people do all the work when you're worried about annoying them! I would suggest you talk to them about how you feel, they might be able to reassure you, though I understand if you feel unable to (men aren't supposed to have feeling according to society!). Wish I could tell you what to do, but that's entirely up to you, take care!