i have a crush on my boss and i think he has a crush on me too Watch

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Yeah so, I really like him, and he kind of gives off the vibes that he might like me. I hope he does. We're both Muslims. What should I do to make us become closer?
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Dont. Sleep. With. Your. Boss.
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Yeah so, I really like him, and he kind of gives off the vibes that he might like me. I hope he does. We're both Muslims. What should I do to make us become closer?
"We're both Muslims"
Really? Is mentioning whether you are a Muslim or not relevant here? You speak as if Muslims don't date
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"We're both Muslims"
Really? Is mentioning whether you are a Muslim or not relevant here? You speak as if Muslims don't date
Muslims aren't supposed to date
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"We're both Muslims"
Really? Is mentioning whether you are a Muslim or not relevant here? You speak as if Muslims don't date
It's a conversation starter I guess
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Yeah so, I really like him, and he kind of gives off the vibes that he might like me. I hope he does. We're both Muslims. What should I do to make us become closer?
Maybe bring up how fire works day is coming up soon and question if he’s going or not. if he’s not ask if he would be interested in going with you. good luck!
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Muslims aren't supposed to date
In Islam, there is no such thing as dating.
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In Islam, there is no such thing as dating.
What do you mean?
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What do you mean?
Dating has nothing to do with Islam. It's amalgamating western cultures into Islam which obviously is never going to work.

If you do want to meet each other it's call a informal proposal where the husbands family comes to the girls house and the husband can see the girl however a wali has to be present there at all times. This could be your dad,brother or uncle.
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He's your boss, things will only end badly
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How do you know that your boss has a crush on you? Do you talk a lot about non-work related things?
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Yeah so, I really like him, and he kind of gives off the vibes that he might like me. I hope he does. We're both Muslims. What should I do to make us become closer?



dating is haram
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Dear sister, seriously ,,,,, and this applies to all muslims, don't dicuss about your issues in Student room ,,, because majority of people here will give a
wrong solution and some times they might take it as a joke,,,

sister you better ask the mosque communities whether online or etc, don't ask the teens ,,,, the teens who some of them are careless, arrogant and impolite (not all of them) please if you need more details message me.

thank you
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Okay, this could either turn out two ways. Number 1, he does actually like you too and number 2 he’s just being a friendly boss. First off you need to consider the age difference and make sure it’s nothing crazy, once you’ve established that and you still want to pursue ur boss then you’re gonna have to up the flirting game. Just drop subtle hints make sure ur allowing him to understand that u kinda like him but don’t go overboard, this is because if it turns out that he doesn’t actually like you it will be easier to style it out as just being friendly. Well, Best of luck with ur boss.
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Give it a go, what's the worst going to happen? You either get want you're hoping for or you get rejected. Either way, It's up to you to decide whether it's worth the risk.

PS: Religion shouldn't have anything to do with this decision, follow your guts.
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lol looks like some people here still believe in forced marriages.
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Yeah so, I really like him, and he kind of gives off the vibes that he might like me. I hope he does. We're both Muslims. What should I do to make us become closer?
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Lucky you, your job is coming to an end
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Never date anyone you work with, I've learnt that lesson.
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Never, ever, EVER Date your boss. If you break up, ****'s gonna go sideways
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