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    In one of my classes I'm struggling to concentrate and to even get anything from the class. Generally I am a nervous/panicky person but in this class it's even worse because there's a lot of group presentations & discussion involved. My anxiety is through the roof and the thought of going to the class stresses me out.
    Please don't judge me! In that class there is;
    1) a group of girls who bullied me when college started, made my life hell and I vowed to never go anywhere near them. It's like I'm scared of them and I do not want any contact with them whatsoever.
    2) a guy I used to fancy & his friends. He knew I fancied him but didn't fancy me back. It's so awkward around him, his friend fancied me but I fancied him.
    3) a group of girls I used to be friends with but they were all into drinking & partying which I wasn't, so I took myself out of the friendship group. I have managed to stay away from them and not have any contact.
    I feel like the whole environment is unhealthy for me to be in and I am considering moving groups but again on the other hand if I moved wouldn't I be running away from the situation & letting the anxiety win?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    In one of my classes I'm struggling to concentrate and to even get anything from the class. Generally I am a nervous/panicky person but in this class it's even worse because there's a lot of group presentations & discussion involved. My anxiety is through the roof and the thought of going to the class stresses me out.
    Please don't judge me! In that class there is;
    1) a group of girls who bullied me when college started, made my life hell and I vowed to never go anywhere near them. It's like I'm scared of them and I do not want any contact with them whatsoever.
    2) a guy I used to fancy & his friends. He knew I fancied him but didn't fancy me back. It's so awkward around him, his friend fancied me but I fancied him.
    3) a group of girls I used to be friends with but they were all into drinking & partying which I wasn't, so I took myself out of the friendship group. I have managed to stay away from them and not have any contact.
    I feel like the whole environment is unhealthy for me to be in and I am considering moving groups but again on the other hand if I moved wouldn't I be running away from the situation & letting the anxiety win?

    You've got to do whats best for your mental health, but also try your best not to let it have a massive effect on your education. Can you move to a different class but studying the same tiopics?
 
 
 
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