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    Hi I use POF to try and find a relationship i have people viewing my profile and mutual matches. I even search for people on pof. However when I send messages I get no reply. Is pof a real dating site i seem to have no luck with it I have been on it for over a year.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hi I use POF to try and find a relationship i have people viewing my profile and mutual matches. I even search for people on pof. However when I send messages I get no reply. Is pof a real dating site i seem to have no luck with it I have been on it for over a year.
    I usually find it's due to the following things....

    1. Bad profile pictures
    2. Boring message
    3. Boring profile
    4. No common interests

    No matter what you message people, if your pictures aren't clear or are bad pictures then you are very unlikely to get a reply. Work on that first. Try not to take selfies, get your friends to take a picture of you.

    You should look to improve your message and ask questions on their profile so they know you've read it, but you also need to have an interesting profile and not just put generic things like "I watch TV".
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hi I use POF to try and find a relationship i have people viewing my profile and mutual matches. I even search for people on pof. However when I send messages I get no reply. Is pof a real dating site i seem to have no luck with it I have been on it for over a year.


    send messages to your matches

    go to your email inbox and it will tell you the username of the girl who wanted to meet you.

    then do a google search with that name also include pof.com in the search. you should then find her profile. if nothing comes up in the search it is either a new user who's profile hasn't been indexed yet by google, or it is a new user who is also a spammer [spamming "yes" on every man] ...pof will likely soon delete the profile and your meetme/match will disappear soon.

    if you can't even get messages off your matches then get off pof, you are not attractive enough to do well on that site.
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    send messages to your matches

    go to your email inbox and it will tell you the username of the girl who wanted to meet you.

    then do a google search with that name also include pof.com in the search. you should then find her profile. if nothing comes up in the search it is either a new user who's profile hasn't been indexed yet by google, or it is a new user who is also a spammer [spamming "yes" on every man] ...pof will likely soon delete the profile and your meetme/match will disappear soon.

    if you can't even get messages off your matches then get off pof, you are not attractive enough to do well on that site.
    POF is full of ****s im going to use a proper site.
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    Either your pictures are *****y but more likely you're not good looking

    dating apps nowadays are usually only for the good looking
 
 
 
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