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    (Original post by It's****ingWOODY)
    Decent clickbait, young padawan. You may achieve Woody status one day
    no one can be like you
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    Vegan?

    You're just vile. He deserves so much better.
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    Love this haha
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    (Original post by Yaboi)
    God i hate people like you with a passion.
    Um judging by the post I made....do ya think I care what u think?.


    But it's true. People make mistakes don't do it again ....and if u do then be honest. No point in hurting two ppl.
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    Um judging by the post I made....do ya think I care what u think?.


    But it's true. People make mistakes don't do it again ....and if u do then be honest. No point in hurting two ppl.
    Your logic is idiotic. If you simply want sex, be clear to the person you're with and see what they think from the get go.

    You're with a person with feelings, not a doll.

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    Haha successfull troll.
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    not bad.
    not great.

    i'll give it a 6 for originality


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    (Original post by _gcx)
    was it halal
    this so funny😂
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    (Original post by Hateocracy)
    Please don't judge me but I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months. He loves me so much and has been by my side on evey decision in my life, even when I was going through a tough time and put on weight. I wanted to go vegan so I could lose weight faster and he supported me and he even joined me so I didn't feel alone in it which was so lovely of him. for about 2-3 months he has been on the same diet as me. he insisted I don't change my diet as this is working out really well for the both of us so i promised him I will only eat vegan food.

    A few weeks ago my ex has me on FB and noticed the difference and started talking to me but I gave him dead replies. He had never talked to me in the year we've been apart and we had stayed as distant friends.

    Anyway over the weekend I went to a friend's birthday party but my boyfriend does night shifts so he couldn't come. My ex was there to my surprise and we got talking all night. There was alcohol and I think I had a bit too much to drink. A few other people were drunk so my ex said he has a free house for all of us to sleep in so we head back to his place. Along the way home we stop for food as we were all hungry, I don't remember much but my friend told me I had an entire doner kebab. my boyfriend will kill me if he found out.

    What to do?
    you mean boner* kebab
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    thank you for the chuckle... LOL
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    (Original post by _Fergo)
    Your logic is idiotic. If you simply want sex, be clear to the person you're with and see what they think from the get go.

    You're with a person with feelings, not a doll.

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    And your a person with no life experience.
    She was drunk , did she state she wanted to have sex with other people from the get go, no.

    She's a young adult and guess what ! People make mistakes and learn .
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    (Original post by nanachan123)
    you mean boner* kebab
    yes
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    And your a person with no life experience.
    She was drunk , did she state she wanted to have sex with other people from the get go, no.

    She's a young adult and guess what ! People make mistakes and learn .
    Hun, I have more experience in life than your immature, small mind will ever have.(and it's 'you're a person...' fyi).

    Gosh, you're an absolute moron. Intention is not relevant - it was her decision to drink, no one forced it upon her. The least she can do is inform her boyfriend.

    By what you're saying you're probably a 15-yr old so no point having this discussion.
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    (Original post by _Fergo)
    Hun, I have more experience in life than your immature, small mind will ever have.(and it's 'you're a person...' fyi).

    Gosh, you're an absolute moron. Intention is not relevant - it was her decision to drink, no one forced it upon her. The least she can do is inform her boyfriend.

    By what you're saying you're probably a 15-yr old so no point having this discussion.
    dude isnt that the girl who got super attached to her ex even after he cheated on her? then made some cancerous threads after that
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    Tell him the truth. You said he loves you, and I'm sure he does, and therefore he won't be too mad. Just tell him and say you were drunk (maybe even if you were not) and that you're really sorry. Just by the post it's obvious you feel guilty. Just start the conversation with something such as, 'Hey you know when I went to my friend's the other night, well there was alcohol and stuff. I'm so sorry but I got hooked up with a dude' I'm not sure I'm awful with words, and you obviously know your boyfriend better than I do. Just be honest, that's the only way he is going to forgive you. And don't leave it too late, or he will find out off of somebody else.
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    (Original post by Hateocracy)
    dude isnt that the girl who got super attached to her ex even after he cheated on her? then made some cancerous threads after that
    Her name reminded me of something so that's that I guess...

    That explains the desperation about 'mistakes' and 'forgiveness' hah.
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    (Original post by _Fergo)
    Her name reminded me of something so that's that I guess...

    That explains the desperation about 'mistakes' and 'forgiveness' hah.
    i don't even know where sex comes into this lol
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    sorry but why tell him? just keep it to yourself, you think your boyfriend would ever tell you if he cheated? ha the hell he would!
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    If there still love with your current boyfriend, it will hurtful to tell him. Just give him the love he expects from you. Forget that weakness that we all challenge at a time of our lives. Take care!
 
 
 
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