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    (Original post by samtheman10000)
    Why don't you think im real. You might have a perfect life but I DON'T I ****ING DON'T OK

    I want to drive, I want a girlfriend, I want to look better, I want a job. Im sorry if i get angry and upset because i don't have it.

    Do you expect me to be pleased
    Post a photo with a timestamp (holding a paper with your username) and I'll help you. You can pm me it if you don't want it in public.
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    (Original post by Nebuchadnezzaṛ)
    Post a photo with a timestamp (holding a paper with your username) and I'll help you. You can pm me it if you don't want it in public.
    Why should I, im not doing that just to please you mate.
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    (Original post by Yolz121)
    My G,
    You sound like you are very desperate to get a girlfriend. Not gonna lie though but the way you approached that girl at the bus stop was very abrupt. If you are going to go out and find a random girl off the street then at least ask her how she is doing or how her day is going after you say hi, or some small talk business. Asking to go on a date can be very unexpected with it comes from someone totally random. Props to you though for your courage in doing that.

    approaching random girls off the street is just bad advice imo, If I were him i'd forget that advice given.

    yes it can work, but it's extremely low probability and unlikely he'll get anything out of it. Most likely he'll get a sea of rejections and perhaps the odd phone number that leads nowhere. That is what happens to most men who take to the street trying to chat up women.

    There's a time and a place for romance, and the street isn't one of them.........
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    (Original post by Nebuchadnezzaṛ)
    This fat micropenised acned incel doesn't have gcses and is worried about girls rofl, you have much bigger things to be worried about. You will literally be homeless if you don't sort yourself out asap, girls are the least of your issues.
    I think his so angry with his life that he has just resorted to trolling now
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    For the situation you described it would probably be best to start with an icebreaker, make a joke or ask her if she thinks your outfit looks OK etc. Personally I would find it pretty cut if a boy started a convo like this, but creepy if he went straight in looking for a date. After a conversation you can give her your number. This puts the power in her hands, giving her the opportunity to get back to you when she feels comfortable.

    As for if/when you get a girl on a date, most girls would immediately write you off as soon as they heard you call another girl a slut, either leaving right away or smiling their way to the end of the date and then never contacting you again. This is because it shows a basic disrespect for women, and an assumption that they owe you something.

    Basically; conversation then ask for a date, not the other way round + don't call girls (or anyone) sluts

    ps; Choosing not to work at somewhere "like KFC," is choosing not to have a job not nobody giving you a chance.
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    (Original post by samtheman10000)
    Why should I, im not doing that just to please you mate.
    Clearly a troll kek, I refuse to believe someone can be this much of a loser.
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    (Original post by Nebuchadnezzaṛ)
    You think he's real bruv?

    He linked his pof profile once.

    I could well imagine him getting 1000's of messages unanswered...
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    (Original post by ANM775)
    He linked his pof profile once.

    I could well imagine him getting 1000's of messages unanswered...
    I've seen his pic, I didn't think it was him. If it really is then condolences.
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    (Original post by Nebuchadnezzaṛ)
    Clearly a troll kek, I refuse to believe someone can be this much of a loser.
    Why. Look what do you expext me to do then

    1. I don't have a girlfriend
    2. I can't drive
    3. I don't have a job
    4. I don't go to Uni
    5. I don't like my body
    6. I don't have many friends


    The only thing I do have is food which makes me happy when im in a depressed mood. I've had about 8 chocolate bars already
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    (Original post by Nebuchadnezzaṛ)
    I've seen his pic, I didn't think it was him. If it really is then condolences.
    It was me but why do you say condolences. HOW THE HELL CAN I IMPROVE MY LOOKS
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    http://www.oswestryramblers.org.uk/ - walking
    https://www.yelp.co.uk/biz/oswestry-...-club-oswestry - politics
    http://www.northshropshirelabour.org/oswestry.html -more politics, probably more in your age group
    https://amdram.co.uk/groups/oswestry...eatre-company/ - drama group (stereotypically women outnumber men by about 3 to 1)
    http://www.o-p-s.me.uk/ - photography
    http://www.oswestryotters.org.uk/ - swimming
    https://armycadets.com/county/shrops...our-locations/ - army cadet, or adult volunteer

    Many people who can't drive find that a bicycle is useful for short journeys...
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    (Original post by ANM775)
    He linked his pof profile once.

    I could well imagine him getting 1000's of messages unanswered...
    But I want to look good. If its not on the street or on internet then where do i meet someone i love
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    (Original post by samtheman10000)
    I've had about 8 chocolate bars already
    Why do you come here?
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    (Original post by Lit teacher)
    http://www.oswestryramblers.org.uk/ - walking
    https://www.yelp.co.uk/biz/oswestry-...-club-oswestry - politics
    http://www.northshropshirelabour.org/oswestry.html -more politics, probably more in your age group
    https://amdram.co.uk/groups/oswestry...eatre-company/ - drama group (stereotypically women outnumber men by about 3 to 1)
    http://www.o-p-s.me.uk/ - photography
    http://www.oswestryotters.org.uk/ - swimming
    https://armycadets.com/county/shrops...our-locations/ - army cadet, or adult volunteer

    Many people who can't drive find that a bicycle is useful for short journeys...
    I live in a village I would have to cycle on the main world which would be dangerous. I CAN'T DO THAT
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    (Original post by Nebuchadnezzaṛ)
    I've seen his pic, I didn't think it was him. If it really is then condolences.
    is he that butters
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    (Original post by Nebuchadnezzaṛ)
    Why do you come here?
    Because I hope that soon somebody actually might give me some good advice because NOTHING WORKS
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    (Original post by samtheman10000)
    It was me but why do you say condolences. HOW THE HELL CAN I IMPROVE MY LOOKS
    Let people see a pic of you and then people can answer that.
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    (Original post by study beats)
    is he that butters
    He's genetic trash.
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    (Original post by ANM775)
    approaching random girls off the street is just bad advice imo, If I were him i'd forget that advice given.

    yes it can work, but it's extremely low probability and unlikely he'll get anything out of it. Most likely he'll get a sea of rejections and perhaps the odd phone number that leads nowhere. That is what happens to most men who take to the street trying to chat up women.

    There's a time and a place for romance, and the street isn't one of them.........
    Tbh I literally just took time out of my evening to read this whole chat and my opinion has totally changed from what I last posted :s
    1) He needs a job. Whether it be volunteering or actually going to find a paid job. Either way he needs a job.
    2) He needs to change his outlook on life and his attitude. Ain't nobody is going anywhere with that attitude and amount of swearing
    3) He needs to forget the girls. There is no girl that will want to come to him if he doesn't have anything going for himself. Why would a girl want to get tied down in a relationship when the boy is not making the effort to actually do something with his life
    4) O.o I hope this guy knows that he is leaving a messed up digital footprint and if he does get a job later in life and his employers go looking through his internet activity then this will reflect bad on him

    But meh.. his problem, he can take all this advice on here that he has been given or he can leave it, either way it's his life he is messing up
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    This is the most recent picture of me
 
 
 
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