I do not mean this for all guys, but a good majority of guys that I have encountered are extremely sex obsessed and obsessed with getting nudes.
I have lost guy friends because they've asked me to send pictures that I do not want to send. I could literally just be texting them normally and then if i said 'I'm going to get changed brb' they'd ask to see.
It's the same with guys you text for the first time, you think everything is going well and that they actually care about your personality and then they ask if you could send them stuff for them to get off on.
All I'm saying is that we are people, not objects. Please respect that. If you ask someone for pics and they aren't comfortable with it, please stop asking them. AND DON'T SEND THEM ANY IF THEY DON'T WANT THEM.
When guys don't respect that it can really bring your self esteem down, as i'm sure it would the other way around too if girls asked guys to send things they weren't comfortable with.
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Don't say stuff like "getting changed soon" or "just getting into the shower" or crap like that then
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Literally who has ever asked a guy for a **** pic
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I so agree with you in this, whenever I start speaking to a guy I don’t know why it always ends up with them asking for sex or nudes and it gets on my nerves, I just want someone who won’t ask for that out of nowhere or treat me like I’m an object 🙄
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Not all guys are like that, speaking from personal experience I have never asked for pics or sent them but honestly I’m not overly confident and I think that plays a big part. Guys that are too confident tend to be heavy on asking for pics and sending them
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At least for the ones who ask you upfront/early on you can block them and not waste any more time on them
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I do not mean this for all guys, but a good majority of guys that I have encountered are extremely sex obsessed and obsessed with getting nudes.
I have lost guy friends because they've asked me to send pictures that I do not want to send. I could literally just be texting them normally and then if i said 'I'm going to get changed brb' they'd ask to see.
It's the same with guys you text for the first time, you think everything is going well and that they actually care about your personality and then they ask if you could send them stuff for them to get off on.
All I'm saying is that we are people, not objects. Please respect that. If you ask someone for pics and they aren't comfortable with it, please stop asking them. AND DON'T SEND THEM ANY IF THEY DON'T WANT THEM.
When guys don't respect that it can really bring your self esteem down, as i'm sure it would the other way around too if girls asked guys to send things they weren't comfortable with.Posted on the TSR App. Download from Apple or Google Play -
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I do not mean this for all guys, but a good majority of guys that I have encountered are extremely sex obsessed and obsessed with getting nudes.
I have lost guy friends because they've asked me to send pictures that I do not want to send. I could literally just be texting them normally and then if i said 'I'm going to get changed brb' they'd ask to see.
It's the same with guys you text for the first time, you think everything is going well and that they actually care about your personality and then they ask if you could send them stuff for them to get off on.
All I'm saying is that we are people, not objects. Please respect that. If you ask someone for pics and they aren't comfortable with it, please stop asking them. AND DON'T SEND THEM ANY IF THEY DON'T WANT THEM.
When guys don't respect that it can really bring your self esteem down, as i'm sure it would the other way around too if girls asked guys to send things they weren't comfortable with.
Not all guys are like that, which means two things:
1. The guys that try and push are very clearly not suitable for you. Easy to avoid.
2. The problem is theirs, so in no way let it affect your self esteem. If anything it should enhance it. Why? Because they consider you worthwhile to want one (although id bet they say that and try it on with any girl) and more importantly you have the strength of character to say no, rather than give in just for their attention.
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honey ive had this account since 2014, i was never banned. You should enjoy the compliment tbh, youre a very good looking young man.(Original post by Cecily Nevyll)
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what kind of guys have you been speaking to ? the perverted types ?
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