Hey there! Sign in to join this conversationNew here? Join for free

I'm a person, not an object Watch

    • #1
    • Thread Starter
    #1

    I do not mean this for all guys, but a good majority of guys that I have encountered are extremely sex obsessed and obsessed with getting nudes.
    I have lost guy friends because they've asked me to send pictures that I do not want to send. I could literally just be texting them normally and then if i said 'I'm going to get changed brb' they'd ask to see.
    It's the same with guys you text for the first time, you think everything is going well and that they actually care about your personality and then they ask if you could send them stuff for them to get off on.

    All I'm saying is that we are people, not objects. Please respect that. If you ask someone for pics and they aren't comfortable with it, please stop asking them. AND DON'T SEND THEM ANY IF THEY DON'T WANT THEM.
    When guys don't respect that it can really bring your self esteem down, as i'm sure it would the other way around too if girls asked guys to send things they weren't comfortable with.
    Offline

    15
    ReputationRep:
    Don't say stuff like "getting changed soon" or "just getting into the shower" or crap like that then
    Offline

    16
    ReputationRep:
    Literally who has ever asked a guy for a **** pic :laugh:
    Offline

    12
    ReputationRep:
    I so agree with you in this, whenever I start speaking to a guy I don’t know why it always ends up with them asking for sex or nudes and it gets on my nerves, I just want someone who won’t ask for that out of nowhere or treat me like I’m an object 🙄
    Posted on the TSR App. Download from Apple or Google Play
    Offline

    8
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Supernova91)
    Literally who has ever asked a guy for a **** pic :laugh:
    Me and loads of girls and gay guys I know. Dicks are beautiful.
    Offline

    16
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Cecily Nevyll)
    Me and loads of girls and gay guys I know. Dicks are beautiful.
    No they’re not 😂
    Offline

    5
    ReputationRep:
    Not all guys are like that, speaking from personal experience I have never asked for pics or sent them but honestly I’m not overly confident and I think that plays a big part. Guys that are too confident tend to be heavy on asking for pics and sending them
    Posted on the TSR App. Download from Apple or Google Play
    Offline

    7
    ReputationRep:
    At least for the ones who ask you upfront/early on you can block them and not waste any more time on them
    Posted on the TSR App. Download from Apple or Google Play
    Offline

    14
    ReputationRep:
    If he only wants your breasts/legs/thighs send him to KFC
    • #2
    #2

    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I do not mean this for all guys, but a good majority of guys that I have encountered are extremely sex obsessed and obsessed with getting nudes.
    I have lost guy friends because they've asked me to send pictures that I do not want to send. I could literally just be texting them normally and then if i said 'I'm going to get changed brb' they'd ask to see.
    It's the same with guys you text for the first time, you think everything is going well and that they actually care about your personality and then they ask if you could send them stuff for them to get off on.

    All I'm saying is that we are people, not objects. Please respect that. If you ask someone for pics and they aren't comfortable with it, please stop asking them. AND DON'T SEND THEM ANY IF THEY DON'T WANT THEM.
    When guys don't respect that it can really bring your self esteem down, as i'm sure it would the other way around too if girls asked guys to send things they weren't comfortable with.
    Then you're clearly friends with the wrong people. That's no reason to "Blame majority of men". It sounds like the people you talk to are a bunch of dicks but that doesn't make majority if men sex obsessed. It's kinda biased and not taking into account that it happens the other way around too, but no one's saying that means all women do it because of a minority
    Posted on the TSR App. Download from Apple or Google Play
    • Very Important Poster
    • Welcome Squad
    Offline

    21
    ReputationRep:
    Block the people doing it then. Simple.

    Pretty sure it's not most guys either.
    Offline

    18
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Supernova91)
    Literally who has ever asked a guy for a **** pic :laugh:
    u.
    Offline

    18
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Cecily Nevyll)
    Me and loads of girls and gay guys I know. Dicks are beautiful.
    what exactly are you gonna do with a 2D ****, bab??
    Offline

    18
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Plantagenet Crown)
    You a hoe
    that's not nice
    Offline

    8
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Supernova91)
    No they’re not 😂
    omg yes they are gurrl !!
    Offline

    16
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Bang Outta Order)
    u.
    Shut up u weren’t supposed to say anything !
    • Very Important Poster
    Offline

    19
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I do not mean this for all guys, but a good majority of guys that I have encountered are extremely sex obsessed and obsessed with getting nudes.
    I have lost guy friends because they've asked me to send pictures that I do not want to send. I could literally just be texting them normally and then if i said 'I'm going to get changed brb' they'd ask to see.
    It's the same with guys you text for the first time, you think everything is going well and that they actually care about your personality and then they ask if you could send them stuff for them to get off on.

    All I'm saying is that we are people, not objects. Please respect that. If you ask someone for pics and they aren't comfortable with it, please stop asking them. AND DON'T SEND THEM ANY IF THEY DON'T WANT THEM.
    When guys don't respect that it can really bring your self esteem down, as i'm sure it would the other way around too if girls asked guys to send things they weren't comfortable with.
    If they ask for pics and you arent interested, just say no and stick to that. Some believe if they persist you will eventually give in.

    Not all guys are like that, which means two things:

    1. The guys that try and push are very clearly not suitable for you. Easy to avoid.
    2. The problem is theirs, so in no way let it affect your self esteem. If anything it should enhance it. Why? Because they consider you worthwhile to want one (although id bet they say that and try it on with any girl) and more importantly you have the strength of character to say no, rather than give in just for their attention.

    Just laugh at their desperation and then ignore them. You can do better and dont need their approval or attention to value yourself..
    Offline

    18
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Supernova91)
    Shut up u weren’t supposed to say anything !


    I aint good wit secrets
    Offline

    8
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Bang Outta Order)
    what exactly are you gonna do with a 2D ****, bab??
    omg its you again sweetie, youre the one with the handsome chav face aren't you ?? if I werent already engaged then Id definitely enjoy asking you for pics :love:
    Offline

    18
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Cecily Nevyll)
    omg yes they are gurrl !!
    answer my question, I don't like to be ignored

    and 2D means flat btw, like a drawing
 
 
 
Reply
Submit reply
TSR Support Team

We have a brilliant team of more than 60 Support Team members looking after discussions on The Student Room, helping to make it a fun, safe and useful place to hang out.

Updated: October 25, 2017
  • See more of what you like on The Student Room

    You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

  • Poll
    What newspaper do you read/prefer?
  • See more of what you like on The Student Room

    You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

  • The Student Room, Get Revising and Marked by Teachers are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd.

    Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: International House, Queens Road, Brighton, BN1 3XE

    Quick reply
    Reputation gems: You get these gems as you gain rep from other members for making good contributions and giving helpful advice.