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    So I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 6 months. I am 20 and he is 23. Since I have been back at uni, he mentioned that he watches porn for a release while I’m away. I understand he needs to release but I’m scared he is getting satisfied over other naked girls. I told him this is how I feel. He told me that it isn’t the girls in porn he isn’t interested in, just the fact that two people are having sex and it’s easier to imagine himself having sex. He said he doesn’t find the girls attractive and doesn’t pick a certain video, whatever Just comes up. Do I believe him? Are any other guys like this? Because I thought guys watched porn for the hot naked girls, but apparently not. Please help
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    (Original post by Anonstudent2105)
    So I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 6 months. I am 20 and he is 23. Since I have been back at uni, he mentioned that he watches porn for a release while I’m away. I understand he needs to release but I’m scared he is getting satisfied over other naked girls. I told him this is how I feel. He told me that it isn’t the girls in porn he isn’t interested in, just the fact that two people are having sex and it’s easier to imagine himself having sex. He said he doesn’t find the girls attractive and doesn’t pick a certain video, whatever Just comes up. Do I believe him? Are any other guys like this? Because I thought guys watched porn for the hot naked girls, but apparently not. Please help
    He watches for the naked girls, as most (straight) guys do. Also to "release". Everyone does it, it doesn't mean he is cheating or isn't interested in you.
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    (Original post by Relentas)
    He watches for the naked girls, as most (straight) guys do. Also to "release". Everyone does it, it doesn't mean he is cheating or isn't interested in you.
    He is always so honest with me though so this is why I am confused. I presumed it would be for the naked girls but he is adamant that it isn’t! I don’t know what to believe
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    There is some truth to what you've said OP. It is easier to "release" for us guys if I we do it whilst watching actresses that possess the ideal body parts/type/race that we THINK are sexy/attractive to us. But don't let it bother you coz it would have non-existent influence over your relationship with your BF.
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    (Original post by JDieMstr)
    There is some truth to what you've said OP. It is easier to "release" for us guys if I we do it whilst watching actresses that possess the ideal body parts/type/race that we THINK are sexy/attractive to us. But don't let it bother you coz it would have non-existent influence over your relationship with your BF.
    Thanks for your answer. The only thing that confuses me about this is the fact that he says he doesn’t pick them for the girls. He doesn’t take any notice to whether they are attractive etc
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    (Original post by Anonstudent2105)
    Thanks for your answer. The only thing that confuses me about this is the fact that he says he doesn’t pick them for the girls. He doesn’t take any notice to whether they are attractive etc
    He does.
 
 
 
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