I just feel so alone no matter what I do. Sometimes I wish I was a girl tbh. They tend to more often have friends they can actually unload on. I don't really feel comfortable unloading too often on male friends. Once in a while when hammered can be acceptable, but make it frequent and you look super weird. I'm just too emotional to be a guy, tbh. If I was socially allowed to I would cry a lot more than I do. I just am so goddamn sensitive to things. And I translate it to anger because that's all a guy can do. And it makes me super annoying to be around. No matter how much attention or validation I get though, I still feel alone. It's an insatiable desire. I just don't seem to fit in this world. Nothing I do seems to be correct or work out. In one sense I hate myself, in another I think I am great and hate others for clearly thinking otherwise. I don't know what to do, I really don't.
Then you might need to find a partner who will be able to fill your gap(s) in by taking good care of you and making you happier..
He just said no matter how much attention he gets , he still feels lonely so what he's feeling is more much more deeper than that.
Depends on what it's making him so lonely and upset .. At this point, I would suggest few sessions of psychotherapy to bring the deeper cause(s) out and find a solution for these.. Talking therapy is good either ..