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    (Original post by Sophtheelf)
    I would say I'm ugly. I have never kissed a boy and never had a boyfriend. I'm fine coping thanks
    If that's you in your picture, I'd say you look kinda cute
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    (Original post by RockyDennis)
    Of course you can, you can change almost any feature unless your eyes are too close together. There's very little you can't change.
    You can't change big ears or a big nose
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    (Original post by Iasfuidtd)
    You can't change big ears or a big nose
    That's funny, hundreds of celebrities seemed to have been able to.
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    (Original post by RockyDennis)
    That's funny, hundreds of celebrities seemed to have been able to.
    Yes with plastic surgery....
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    (Original post by Iasfuidtd)
    Yes with plastic surgery....
    A worthy way to spend money for anyone who wishes to change certain features...
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    (Original post by RockyDennis)
    A worthy way to spend money for anyone who wishes to change certain features...
    True, but it takes years to save up and some people are unable to get jobs like me so they just have to learn to deal with it for years
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    (Original post by RockyDennis)
    You can change your face, quite dramatically in fact. You can change almost anything you want.

    Even a huge number of things can be done for aging which is one of the hardest things to correct. But you wouldn't think so, because people are too obsessed with scam creams that do nothing.

    Unless your eyes are too close together, then there's nothing you can do lol.
    I suppose you can undergo plastic surgery- generally speaking for a student, surgery is out of the picture
    I guess you can always aim for a razor sharp jawline
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    (Original post by Tindalland)
    If that's you in your picture, I'd say you look kinda cute
    Whoa thank you! No one' s ever said anything like that!
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    (Original post by angrypoliceman)
    I suppose you can undergo plastic surgery- generally speaking for a student, surgery is out of the picture
    I guess you can always aim for a razor sharp jawline
    I don't have a razor sharp jawline, I have 4 chins
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    prepare yourself for people with attractive display pictures posting and saying "I'm ugly too, I cope just fine"
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    (Original post by del1rious)
    prepare yourself for people with attractive display pictures posting and saying "I'm ugly too, I cope just fine"
    I know, that really pisses me off
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    (Original post by Iasfuidtd)
    I don't have a razor sharp jawline, I have 4 chins
    aim for one then; unless you think 4 chins looks better than a razor sharp jawline-its all up to u
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    Yeah women can get a proper make over and look like a different person while blokes pretty much get what given
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    (Original post by Sophtheelf)
    Whoa thank you! No one' s ever said anything like that!
    I don't believe you, I bet you get it all the time
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    (Original post by angrypoliceman)
    aim for one then; unless you think 4 chins looks better than a razor sharp jawline-its all up to u
    How can I iaim for one? I think 4 chins looks disgusting which is why I'm trying to lose weight, but I'll still have a flat chin either after I've lost weight anyway. That can only be fixed with plastic surgery
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    (Original post by Dominoes)
    Yeah women can get a proper make over and look like a different person while blokes pretty much get what given
    That's not true, really ugly girls like me still look ugly with makeup on
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    (Original post by GeorgeMillerr)
    I just don't care, I have better things to care about like my grades
    I love this attitude so much.
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    (Original post by Iasfuidtd)
    How can I iaim for one? I think 4 chins looks disgusting which is why I'm trying to lose weight, but I'll still have a flat chin either after I've lost weight anyway. That can only be fixed with plastic surgery
    unless you're obese atm chances are you wont have loose skin problems when u lose body fat
    to lose body fat all you need to do is eat at a calorie deficit-its all diet, you don't even need to do cardio. google to find out more info; id personally recommend eating at a calorie deficit whilst lifting weights. (its called body recomposition if u wanna read up on it) you lose body fat whilst gaining muscle if you're a beginner to lifting weights. -make sure u eat enough protein though
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    I love the quote "those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind".

    I don't think I cope particularly well being unattractive but I have a couple of things that help;
    -if i find myself being anxious or upset over it, I ask myself why I care? If I come up with an answer, I ask myself again. I keep delving into that until I realise there's no logic behind it. I confuse the **** out of myself.
    -surround myself with people who don't care what I look like.
    -my main issue is my weight, so on my good days I focus on eating healthily, exercising, etc.
    -one thing my therapist told me was to write a list of things I do like about myself, and make THAT what people remember about me. First impressions are one thing (I get a lot of people judging me based on my looks) but reinventing your image (I try to tell jokes, keep a conversation going, talk about something they like) often over runs that.
    -don't care about what the people outside of your life think. Dyou remember anyone maybe you passed in the corridor once and never saw again? No one really picks up on other people unless there's some sort of interaction taking place, so for a start, try to remember they won't even remember you in 5 seconds.

    I had a guy dump me for being unattractive, so that probably intensified the problem, but if all else fails, remember one day we'll all grow old, we'll all be unattractive, and then the intelligent, funny successful ones will rise

    Sending hugs.
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    (Original post by angrypoliceman)
    unless you're obese atm chances are you wont have loose skin problems when u lose body fat
    to lose body fat all you need to do is eat at a calorie deficit-its all diet, you don't even need to do cardio. google to find out more info; id personally recommend eating at a calorie deficit whilst lifting weights. (its called body recomposition if u wanna read up on it) you lose body fat whilst gaining muscle if you're a beginner to lifting weights. -make sure u eat enough protein though
    No I'm not obese but that's what I plan on doing, will an exercise bike help lose weight?
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