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    So basically, me and this guy A were talking (flirting) a few years back and really liked each other but drifted apart. We've been good friends since about a year ago and he told me he'd be interested in getting with me at a Halloween party on Saturday.

    No sex involved by the way. The only thing holding me back is that on Monday he made out with this girl who hated when me and A were together. She has dated most of the guys in my group but insists A has been the one all along. I try to be nice to her and regarding A she has only ever shown off.

    I don't want to upset her but at the same time I do want to get with this guy, just worried it could reboil some jealousy in her. I don't want to get with him for revenge, part of me still likes him, this could potentially make the situation even worse though. I don't want to get back together but I could catch feelings...

    Please give honest advice.
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    yo, I'm a guy so idk if you wanna take my advice or not... but hey if I was in your situation I would totally go for the guy, it sounds like he really likes you and that girl sounds like a *****.. it sounds like she only wants him because you want him.
    she sounds like a proper **** (meh not meant in a bad way I guess) and she doesn't sound like a good mate.
    If he makes you happy then you should go for it.
    hope this helped..
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    (Original post by Residence3)
    yo, I'm a guy so idk if you wanna take my advice or not... but hey if I was in your situation I would totally go for the guy, it sounds like he really likes you and that girl sounds like a *****.. it sounds like she only wants him because you want him.
    she sounds like a proper **** (meh not meant in a bad way I guess) and she doesn't sound like a good mate.
    If he makes you happy then you should go for it.
    hope this helped..
    It did thank you. Me and the girl have never been close and I've always tried to keep on her good side because I've never want to hurt someone. This is good advice and I mighr just go with it in the moment.
 
 
 
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