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Does this mean I shouldn't get back with him? watch

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    So my ex dumped me nearly a year ago and now wants to give things another shot. The ball is now in my court. I miss being in a relationship with him but I'm also happy on my own so I don't know whether to risk things and ruin my current state of happiness. The reason I'm doubting it so much is because I find the idea of kissing him and having sex with him quite weird now. Particularly sex. I'm kindof scared of being so open and intimate with him after being hurt by him.
    Do you think I should say no to getting back with him and keep my pride and self respect. Or just give it another chance now I've got another opportunity.

    If you are happy then stay how you are. Nothing should ever feel weird if a relationship is right, you wouldn’t question how you felt if you really wanted to go back there. If I were you I would leave it all behind.
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