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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    At the moment no I'm not.. It's just that I believe in sex after marriage. So I dont want them to see me then and be put off by my body.
    If those types of men are so easily put off by your body, then they don't deserve you. A real person will overlook those factors and still see you as the same person they fell in love with
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    (Original post by AbelTesfaye_isMJ)
    If those types of men are so easily put off by your body, then they don't deserve you. A real person will overlook those factors and still see you as the same person they fell in love with
    Well, it's not very womanly. So I cant expect them to find it attractive at all.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So gaining weight helped you also get boobs. As the fat was distributed there?

    Was it evenly spread?
    It was evenly distributed all over my body, as little as 5/10 lbs can make a big difference, what is your mother's bust size like? Taking the pill also increased my bust size. Honestly, you shouldn't worry about this, it sounds like you might have some sort of body dysmorphia.
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    A lot of guys love big breasts, others don't. I'm sure someone will like you, little titties and all
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    (Original post by gunterbooty)
    It was evenly distributed all over my body, as little as 5/10 lbs can make a big difference, what is your mother's bust size like? Taking the pill also increased my bust size. Honestly, you shouldn't worry about this, it sounds like you might have some sort of body dysmorphia.
    Not small.. So I also get made fun of from siblings about my bra size.
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    Dont listen to this bullcrap.

    If you can cook and make banging munch, no guy will turn you down
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    There is quite a few men into small breasts (im saying that since im 32A/B boarder line And I have no trouble finding myself a guy + consider problems that come with big breasts: stretch marks, back pains, sore breasts due to PMS :/?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm 32A and small 5"1 and 18 years of age.

    There's more to a relationship than just personality and that's a given. I just feel like I'd fall on this side of it.

    I just hate my breast sizes and would want them to be at least one or two cups bigger
    I’m an 18 year old guy and I honestly have zero problems with that. Petite women are beautiful.
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    Make yourself known to others. But get to know people and get close, not too close - don’t want to get in the deadly friend-zone
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    Big boobs really aren't as big an issue as the porno industry makes out.

    In real life, a lot of guys really love small breasts just as much as bigger... Even had guys saying 'big boobs just get in the way'.
    I used to think this was such an issue when younger but then I realised guys can find girls really hot even if they have little to no boobs, provided everything else is in place. Think about it, Keira Knightley has no boobs. I've seen hot guys swoon over flat chested girls before. I definitely think a worthwhile guy would find fake boobs a bit of a turn off, because it's unnatural and because there's literally no need for it. It also is just a dumb decision, in my opinion. That money could be a lot better spent, and all the people i know who've had cosmetic surgery weren't more confident afterwards. The problem is mainly internal not external.

    I really doubt your face is as bad as you think. What features do you have that make you think it's so bad? If you want you can pm me and I can give you some advice about appropriate make up, because a lot of the girls in the U.K. plaster themselves in make up and it's actually really unattractive. Most worthwhile guys don't want a girl who looks like she's on her break from filming a porno film. It's embarrassing lol. You just need a bit of make up to bring out your best features, good skin care etc.

    Others have suggested gymming for your bum, but actually you will find that eating well (super nutritious), drinking plenty of water, sleeping properly, and regular exercise gives you a rare glow. I always look grim during periods when I don't do these things, but when i do, I can see the effect all those positive body chemicals has on me, and feel a lot more confident.

    It's actually really bad to be a girl today, because there's so many dumb expectations on how you should be. It's almost impossible to have a positive view of your appearance today - there are so many NON REAL photoshopped images of perfection, that we compare ourselves to, and the selfie/instagram culture helps none. Plus even if you have a lovely body, you're constantly getting messages it should be a different lovely body, if that makes sense. Skinny girls get shamed for having small boobs, but girls who have larger boobs probably carry extra weight in other places/can't be skinny... so it's like, impossible to have 'the perfect body' even if it's a lovely body. So I'm pretty sure almost every woman feels insecure about their body. Also, one of the best tips I ever received regarding appearance- don't compare your non done up self to someone else's 'done up self'. And definitely no comparing to photoshop images/ instagram girls.

    Also, whilst I do get why being shorter may be difficult, I think you should think about it like this. You can't change that, so you should accept it. I remember there was one girl who would have been in your position in the past, because she was similar - lack of boobs and very petite. She said it really affected her in the past, being so small, and she still wished sometimes she had bigger breasts. But she found a really handsome and committed boyfriend who saw her beauty (inner and outer), and I suspect he also liked the fact she was small cause it made him feel taller around her. A lot of shorter guys (who can by the way be very handsome and charming) love to have a shorter girl. Seen it so many times.

    I know it is really hard to be confident in yourself in today's society... but ultimately we're all struggling with the same thing. And it's a dumb struggle, ultimately a struggle of capitalism. Don't give in to the way the *******s want you to feel.
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    (Original post by shaggy armpit 69)
    Dont listen to this bullcrap.

    If you can cook and make banging munch, no guy will turn you down
    Not looking to be taken as a housewife.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Not looking to be taken as a housewife.
    I didn't say housewife.
    I said cooking in general.
    If you go out with my man and you chill with him what do you expect to eat everyday? Takeaway? Nah
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    You can be sexy without having big boobs, what are you talking about?

    sexiness comes from confidence, not breast size
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    (Original post by shaggy armpit 69)
    Dont listen to this bullcrap.

    If you can cook and make banging munch, no guy will turn you down
    even if the woman is fat and ugly?
    don't think so...
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    Why you complaining, your good size X
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    (Original post by yungaheartz)
    You can be sexy without having big boobs, what are you talking about?

    sexiness comes from confidence, not breast size
    Yea, but it's a big part of it. And I'm ugly facial wise so completely screwed.
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    banoffee Despite, not wanting female posts it has helped. Thank you so much. I appreciate it a lot. I'll PM you sometime soon.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yea, but it's a big part of it. And I'm ugly facial wise so completely screwed.
    You'll have to be wanted sexually by an ugly guy then.
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    (Original post by Nebuchadnezzaṛ)
    You'll have to be wanted sexually by an ugly guy then.
    I dont mind that. But even ugly guys have high standards.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I dont mind that. But even ugly guys have high standards.
    They don't.
 
 
 
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